this friend of mine has a girlfriend. now that he is studying abroad he has met someone else. he likes her alot as she likes him too. he is going head over heels for her. he likes both the girls equaly. what should he do? pls dont say FOLLOW WHAT UR HEART TELLS YOU. he needs something more solid. please help
2006-07-06 07:31:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he should set goals, look at each girls quality's and not so good qualities and see if he can figure it out then. plus when you first meet someone you always fall over head and heels, and then things change, so but not be all that it seems to be . just be careful because you could be breaking three hearts at once
2006-07-06 07:35:52 · answer #1 · answered by JADOSGIRL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to be honest with both girls and he needs to tell them about the other - see which one stays!
The first girlfriend may feel like he's cheated on her and may want out of the relationship - the 2nd girl may feel - gee....if he did this to his first girlfriend he'll probably be doing this to me too - she may not stick around.
2006-07-06 07:38:57 · answer #2 · answered by Leila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O.K. HOW ABOUT THIS, WHAT WOULD YOU want if it was you in this knot. is the girl a freind of yours? do you want to move in on her? is there the possability that she will not believe you and then lose both friends? your in a mine field, dude. any step you take, bam. what your buddy is doing is shitty, no dougt. the question is, is what you gain morally worth the cost you will pay. be honorable and tell her. it is the right thing to do.
2006-07-06 07:41:06 · answer #3 · answered by puertoricanhusker85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young and dating two girls. Nothing wrong with that. One here, one there. Eventually it will end unless he decides on one over the other, but he is the only one that can make that choice, not you.
2006-07-06 07:35:18 · answer #4 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like "your friend" isn't being fair to either of the girls. "Your friend" should probably break it off to the girl at home. None of this "follow what your heart." "Your friend" is being selfish and I probably wouldn't concern myself with what "your friend" is doing and concentrate more on your own relationships.
2006-07-06 07:36:40 · answer #5 · answered by jtj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
decide which girl offers the most happiness to him, who makes him laugh, who he can hurt and who he can't, who does he want to be around more and is it for real with the other girl! Just remember honesty is key with both girls to make a smooth transition.
2006-07-06 10:28:24 · answer #6 · answered by cutipi_1977 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on where he plans to live & if his girlfriend here would move overseas if that's where he wants to be.
He can't maintain an overseas relationship, so the choice is simple.
2006-07-06 07:35:00 · answer #7 · answered by lynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be practical and stay with the one that you can kiss on a regular basis. Good luck
2006-07-06 07:36:33 · answer #8 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what you want, so go for it some one is going to get hurt, there is no stoping that. Just be careful and don't hurt the wrong one.
2006-07-06 07:35:39 · answer #9 · answered by romenphila 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
choose one only. I'm sure there is one thing that's different between the girls that should make up his mind which ones for him...are you not talking bout yourself??
2006-07-06 07:37:52 · answer #10 · answered by fazzy0323 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋