ready for work, and sometime in the late afternoon after we both get home, or at night before we go to sleep. Often on the weekends
we will make love one or two additional times during the day, or
he will stop for a "quickie" if we are on the road that day. Do most
men have such a high energy level? He does not take medication,
just says he has a high sex drive. He cannot get enough oral sex-
either receiving or giving...is this normal also?
2006-07-06 07:25:43 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
He is 51, I am 48...from a lot of the responses people are thinking we are very young.
2006-07-06 07:37:37 · update #1
Excellent question:: the main thing is, that he wants YOU, and not someone else..... love him...... and have a wonderful marriage....
2006-07-06 07:28:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You say "for the past few months". I take it that is was considerably less before then. The first thing that comes to mind is that maybe he's discovered Viagra and just doesn't want to tell you about it. Nothing wrong with that, I'm a Viagra user myself and it certainly has made me ready to "rock and roll" more often! People of all ages do vary in their sex drive though. There are extremely horny people in their 50's and 60's (even without Viagra!) and others in their 20's who can take it or leave it. Generally we do slow down with age though. I'm 65 and speak from experience! I would say most men that age aren't that horny but if you are both enjoying it...go for it! A lot of women would probably like to be in your shoes!
2006-07-06 07:47:06 · answer #2 · answered by doctor feelgood 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is totally normal, especially if your guy has lots of energy and is young. He's lucky that you're willing to give it up and you guys have the time in your schedule now so enjoy it. In the future you might decide to have a baby and that'll make you both really tired from the care and feeding of said baby, so the energy level will definitely go down. I can't blame him though. Sex and oral sex are awesome. Hopefully for you he's really good at it too! He's gotta be in his late teens or early 20s if he has this much energy. If he's older, he must really really be in super great shape! LUCKY GUY!
2006-07-06 07:31:42 · answer #3 · answered by bombhaus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very normal, i am like that with my man, its either love or a really good sexual attraction for each other. In my case it is both. He sounds like he is very attracted to you and that should make you happy. Dont question it girl. Be glad you are asking that question and not my man never wants to have sex with me what do i do. You got a keeper. Especially if he loves to dish out the oral. I would definitely keep him around. Enjoy it before you get older and your sex drive isnt what it is now.
2006-07-06 07:51:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexual energy varies greatly among men and women from none to hyper drive they are all normal. Variables include age general health, mood, and hormones. He isn't abnormal and as long as you are enjoying it don't stress about it. apparently based on your question he is not a selfish lover so just enjoy it. Don't be surprised if over time he goes through a down period so to speak, that is normal too.
I know that my sexual energy is highly variable from 3 to 4 times a day to once every 2 weeks and back again. It has been this way since puberty and I have learned to accept it as my state of being
2006-07-06 07:32:17 · answer #5 · answered by rehobothbeachgui 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most couples are intimate more at the beginning of their sexual relationship than later on. He is currently very excited by you and wants you all the time. As time goes on, this might wane a bit, but if you work at keeping things fresh and exciting by doing new activities or finding new ways to excite each other, things will be wonderful for a long time in the future. He is not abnormal, but likely on the plus side of the average range and I hope you are enjoying it as much as he is.
2006-07-06 07:32:31 · answer #6 · answered by RedyRob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When did you find the time to post your question on Yahoo?? Seriously though, who is to say what is normal? Most people don't have nearly that much sex, so you are not likely to get a lot of sympathy. My advice is to only start questioning it only when the sex stops. In the meantime, enjoy yourself and stop over-thinking it.
2006-07-06 07:32:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a high sex drive, but who says what is normal?
In all truth, there are a lot of guys out there who would have sex that often if they could, but their girlfriends don't want it that often.
If you enjoy it then go for it, fantastic that you have sex so often, bet you have a happy guy too :-D
2006-07-06 07:30:31 · answer #8 · answered by scaryclairy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't speak for everyone but I have a 2 or 3 times a day habit
2006-07-06 07:30:03 · answer #9 · answered by Papa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geez lucky guy - wish I got it that much and I am younger than both of you. I'm lucky to get it twice a week - most weeks not even that much.
Perfectly normal and exciting - it appears both of you are loving life.
PS - yeah, I thought you were maybe around 24 yrs old.
2006-07-06 12:27:10 · answer #10 · answered by Wolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it's normal, but what matters is your having sex because you want it not because he does...men will always be ready, always! so if you don't feel like it tell him to take care of it on his own, he's a grown man...he should be able to take care of it himself. Make sure you are doing it when YOU want to, or in the end you will hate the moment he wants something sexual from you.
2006-07-06 07:30:34 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋