LAST YEAR IN JUNE I MET A BOY THAT WAS 21 AND I WAS 17 AT THE TIME AND I REALLY FELL FOR HIM.. I SPOILED HIM EVERYTHING HE WANTED HE GOT, I WOULD COOK FOR HIM, AND TAKE CARE OF HIM BUT HE CHEATED ON ME AND I FOUND OUT BECAUSE THAT GIRL SHOWED UP AT MY HOUSE AND I OBVIOUSLY BROKE UP WITH HIM BUT I CAN'T GET OVER HIM I DONT KNOW IF ITS LOVE OR IF IT IS THAT I HAVE THAT VINDICTIVE STREAK IN ME AND MAYBE I JUST WANT HIM TO COME BACK TO ME TO GET EVEN??? OR IS IT THAT I LOVE HIM?? BECAUSE ABOVE ALL I WANT HIM TO BE HAPPY AND I DONT WANNA C HIM HURT BUT I'M ANGRY BUT THEN AGAIN I WANNA BE WITH HIM HELP!!!! AND THE PART THAT CONFUSES ME IS THAT ITS BEEN A YEAR AND I CAN FORGET ABOUT HIM AND I THINK ABOUT HIM EVERYDAY AND THEN I MET A MAN WHICH I HAVE AN ISSUE WITH WHICH I ALSO POSTED THE QUESTION EARLIER!!!! HELLLLPPPP ME!!! MY LIFE IS A MESS!!!!
2006-07-06 07:09:06 · 8 answers · asked by Karina M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need to chill out relax find out whats up with your life and where you are going,a dude is a dude honestly we know what it takes to get a girl back we will play with your head, I dont know maybe thats the way god made us,but also you have a way of thinking and making choices.you are young get someone that will not make you ask questions like this,someone that will make you 110% sure of everything ...hope it goes well
2006-07-07 04:30:49 · answer #1 · answered by vito194 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
You are only 18 years old. Maybe you do love him but, there are other more respectful men out there. In every relationship, if it is not permanent, someone gets hurt. This situation is not unique.
You sound like a catch for someone who appreciates you. You need to go to church or school . Get involved in activities. Keep busy and don't worry. You will meet someone else in time. Be choosy and let the next one take care of you too.
2006-07-06 07:21:52 · answer #2 · answered by 4HIM- Christians love 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's hard to let go of someone u love, but as bad as it hurts u have to move on. love is a rose, beautiful & warm, but it can hurt and in ur case the rose has died. Bury it and let it go, just rember ur strong, smart & bueatiful, and he just missed out. Ur still young, explore,be patient, don't dwell on the past and u'll be alright.
Sencarrly,
Me - Still bored at work
2006-07-06 08:44:37 · answer #3 · answered by That_guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, I think it's time for life to go on. If he cheated on you once, then he'll do it again. I'm sure that he's not giving you another thought......especially when he's in bed with someone else. Go out, find someone new.....ON YOUR TERMS........and get over him. You'll be so much more happier in the long run. Best of luck to you.........
2006-07-06 07:31:29 · answer #4 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes happy right where he is w/o you so leave him there besides if he cheated once hell cheat again then you will have to think of catching a kootie and not knowing where he got it from of course you will know where you got it from...
2006-07-06 07:16:18 · answer #5 · answered by luv41anatha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds lik he is taking advantage of u.....if he cheated on u 4get about him nd find someone that trully loves u...
2006-07-06 07:15:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow up. there are millions of guys out there
2006-07-06 07:19:02 · answer #7 · answered by jastenman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PARTY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! TOO MANY COOL GUYS FOR YOU GIRLFRIEND
2006-07-06 07:52:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋