I'm 15 years old do you thin that I'm to youn to have sex? or eventhink about it?

Question

I want to but I know all of the risks but I do not know what to do.

Answer 1

if u have to ask this question then yes, ur too young.

Answer 2

Okay. First of, have you tried anything by yourself? Believe it or not, it can actually be BETTER than with a guy, and totally safe! You are not too young to think about sex, you can hardly help it with all those hormones running rampant right now, but I do think it is a little early to actually engage in sex. Let me tell you, that if you start too early, it can mess up the way you percieve sex. It won't be as meaningful to you. Which would you rather? A sex life that was born out of clumsy nervousness, or a sex life full of passion, with just the right rythym? Just think about it. You might understand that if you are emotionally mature, and really have a grasp on your own identity, that everything will just flow for you. I was 18 when I lost my virginity, and sometimes I think even that was too young.

Answer 3

Well, lots of people have had sex by 15, but, if only you could talk to a girl who is 27 or so, who had had sex at 15. She would tell you that she deeply regrets it. Anyway, a smart gal would tell you this. Why do you want to have sex? Just to do it? Why? Why won't you wait for someone who can LOVE you, and I mean, really love you. Lots of guys will tell you they love you, or pretend to change for your love. They may even make you feel like a princess. But, the only one worthy of having sex with will be the one you marry. If you think you cannot wait till you are married, then at least wait for a few more years, and make it with someone very, VERY special. Lots of guys will come and go in your lifetime. You may think you are in love right now, but tell this guy that you may have sex with him after you have been together for ONE YEAR. If he gets mad, or acts shocked, or says that he just will NOT wait a year, and that he needs it NOW, then you KNOW that he is not worthy of You anyway. Kick him to the curb. But, the boy who waits a whole year--faithfully--for you, well, HE will be a "keeper". Sex doesn't make us grown up. It usually only makes us foolish. Once you lose your virginity, you can never get it back. It is not wrong to think about sex, but when you do, just try to get busy doing something, so you can get it out of your mind. No need to dwell on it. Sex BEFORE marriage almost always ruins everything. It makes us foolish and makes us lose our level heads.

Answer 4

1) I read that it's illegal (by law) to have sex if you're younger than 16. 2) Plenty of surveys have revealed that sex changes a relationship between unmarried people for the worst. His attitude to you will change and you two will grow distant. 3) Why do you even want to do it? You could get a) pregnant, b) aids/hiv, c) an illness, and d) you'd lose your purity. 4) What will you have to do on your wedding night?

I say that if you're even thinking it's wrong, know the consequences, and are thinking twice, then it's NOT THE RIGHT THING TO DO!!! I urge you not to. As i said, you'll have something to look forward to when you're married.

Answer 5

I was 15 when I had sex for the first time now I am 32. God do I wish I never had sex until I understood all that comes with having sex. You can get more out of men (guys) if they think they are going to get something don't give in say no. You can please yourself in other ways. The guy your with now will not be around long enough for you to live a lifetime of regret.

Answer 6

You know all of the STD risks. Do you know all of the emotional risks? If you were to find out your partner was just using you for sex, could you handle it? If you can handle it, you're ready; if not, then you're not. I'm not saying you will be used, but you certainly might be. At 15, there are no responsibilities, you're minors. In my opinion, your chances of getting used are higher.

Answer 7

well do u really to do it right now its all up to uwhat ever things u choose that u also if u have a boyfriend and u really love than go for it. i was raise that i have to get marry before i have sex. well when u a teen u see a guy u really like and u don't want to hurt the person so u might do cause if u don't some of your friends thinks that u let that hottie go without doing anything.some of your friends r doing it so u think it will be kool to try

Answer 8

Do you have a special person, or are you in it just for the experience? If it's the latter, I personally would wait, although I don't think 15 is too young.....but make sure you have and use protection. You don't want to end up with an unplanned pregnancy, AIDS, herpes, or other charming souvenirs. Don't rely on your partner to bring along the condom. And, if he won't use protection, don't do it.

Answer 9

if you have doubts about whether or not you are ready to have sex, or even going on line to ask someone you don't even know for opinion, then obviously you aren't ready just yet. I would wait if I were you. Least until you are16/17 that way you can go out when you want, and get an idea of what responsibility is.

Answer 10

You have to decide if the risks of getting pregnant, getting an std, having him brag to all his friends and ruining your reputation, him never speaking to you again, etc. is worth it.
If I were you, I'd wait. I was raped when I was 14, got pregnant at 15 but had a miscarriage (that's how I found out I had been pregnant)... :(

Answer 11

You are too young to be sexually active. Are you ready to be a parent and have the responsibility of a child?

You obviously have access to a computer, do some searches on Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs). Some of them have very serious consequences including death.

Don't just have sex to have sex. If you don't respect yourself, no one else will either.