I have been with my fiance for one year he gets mad at me when guys want to talk to me at work and he gets agressive and occasionally her will push me into my room just to get me away from a guy or if he wants to yell at me without anyone heqaring.. could he be getting abusive???
2006-07-06 07:07:45 · 11 answers · asked by Valorie and Cipriano M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes, be careful. I am no expert but if you are just dating and he is doing this, what's next.
Move on and find a nice guy that you won't have to explain every move you make and that will treat you as you deserve.
Please be careful
2006-07-06 07:10:41 · answer #1 · answered by american_angel068 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exactly as Sacred Clay said - if you continue with this relationship you will condemn yourself to a life of misery and injury, probably ending with a violent death. I have seen it all too often and there is no excuse or cure. The man is evil and will try to totally dominate you. If you resist he will use violence and then apologise saying that he really loves you. Total rubbish. Just watch the way he behaves when you tell him that you do not want to see him anymore - he will show his true colours, then cry crocodile tears and again tell you that he loves you more than life itself. Don't believe him. Kick his ar*se out of it..............
2006-07-06 07:16:19 · answer #2 · answered by thomasrobinsonantonio 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe. If he pushes you he might eventually start hitting you. Now is the time to watch out for those signs before you get into a abusive marriage.
2006-07-06 07:11:38 · answer #3 · answered by Ronnie Jo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is abusive and possessive. I would put off marrying this guy until you are certain that he isn't. Abuse starts off innocently and escalates
He will apologize and make promises to not do it again..but in the long run, he will. Stop him now and suggest that you both go to counseling. Help him to see the error of his ways before you see the error of your choices.
2006-07-06 07:22:21 · answer #4 · answered by gmommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes ! it sounds to me like he already is. I dont even know you, but i know that there's somebody out there who is better for you than him. GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP NOW!!!!!! If he's treating you like this he dosnt care about you enough for you to marry him. if you do decide to break up with him and you are scared he will hurt you get a close friend to be there with you or something. Your fiance shouldnt be yelling at you like he's trying to punish you or something...you deserve better!!!
2006-07-06 07:15:10 · answer #5 · answered by Paris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that he may be unrealistically JEALOUS..
If he hits, pushes, bites, slaps or calls you names, If he always blames you for the bad things that happen to HIM!! HE IS ABUSIVE!!!!! Get as far away from him as possible..It will only get worse..NOT better. If you fear him in any way, seek help!
2006-07-06 07:18:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, he IS abusive and it WILL escalate into physical. That is not proof of love. Dump him and escape a life of hell.
2006-07-06 07:10:27 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, best to leave him now before it gets any worst
2006-07-06 07:11:06 · answer #8 · answered by Rain040792 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont need that treatment you are special in very way.he is abusive.and you need to speak to him about how you feel.do something before it gets worst.
2006-07-06 07:12:45 · answer #9 · answered by fazzy0323 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out of this relationship before it is too late.
2006-07-06 07:22:49 · answer #10 · answered by starrygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋