Who thinks you shuold only have sex with a person you really love? Who doesn't? Why?

Question

I think that people should only have sex as an act of love and not as a simple act of plesure... What do you think?

I mean, it doesn't actually means you have to spend the rest of your life with this person... but should people go to bed with a some girl/guy you're met 2 hours ago??

Answer 1

i think u should only with people u love.. I'm a boy, but still i think that having sex is something perfect that looses it's meaning when u use it with worthless (for your feelings) people,

my point of view!

Answer 2

I believe that two people should only have sex if they do truely have feelings for each other because to many people in today's society look at sex as just fun and games and something to pass by some time because it might feel good. However sex was not meant to used as recreation but as procreation and there are just to many disease and such out there now and people need to take it more seriously than they do.. No you should start having sex with someone u picked up in a bar a couple of hours ago if you want to be like that go stand on the corner and get yourself killed that way because ultimately that is what is going to happen. Not you dear but other people that are that way.

Answer 3

Way back in the day I wouldn't have sex unless I loved the person, to me that was something that I would only do if I were prepared to accept the consequences and I wasn't going to spend the rest of my life with someone I didn't love...on the other hand...now that I've been there done that and am later in years...its been more companionship with the understanding that there isn't the possibility of having a consequence, if you know what I mean.

Answer 4

I'm going to say no- simply because sex is a natural desire for most people. Lust can be just a powerful as love, and you might trick yourself into believing that every physical relationship you have is about love, when it may not be. Love is a lot more rare, and if you want and have the ability to wait for those needles in the haystacks- then more power to you! There would be a lot less STD's that way I suppose. But unfortunately, for the common man, I think it would just be too hard.

Answer 5

I do, because you should be in a managamis relationship just in case you get pregnaunt or an STD, you don't spread the std and the child will grow up with both parents together....It's a sign of love, and should only be done in a loving relationship...just my opinion but I'm to young to know...

Answer 6

I think that you should have sex only with the person you love because sex is an emotion not a game..its an extension of love..so it just cant be with anybody.

Answer 7

I think it should only be with someone you have strong feeling for. In my experience if you dont have any feelings or one that arent really there then it just make the whole thing feel cheap. But if the feelings are there and are mutual it makes the experience all the much better.

Answer 8

I think that making love is just that, sharing an expression of love with someone you share a special bond with. It doesn't necessarily mean that you have to wait until you're married, but it does mean waiting for a special someone.

Answer 9

U should have sex only with someone u care about, otherwise ur going to feel used. Nobody wants to end up being the booty call

Answer 10

sex is suppose to be something special shared between 2 people that love each other...nowadays people dont view it like that. from my experiences sex is definitely alot better and more meaningful when its with someone u love as oppose to just someone u know.