OK I love them bouth but I love m B-F more so what should I tell the other guy? Please help me.
2006-07-06 06:57:52 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
since you love your boyfriend more then your EX, think about how your boyfriend would feel if you left him for your ex. probably not too good. you love him, do you want to hurt him? think about how you would feel if the one person you love more then anything in the whole world just came out and said "I'm breaking up with you and going back with my ex", and there is absolutely nothing you can do to keep him with you?? how long do you really think you and you're ex will last? the way i see it, once an EX, always an EX! maybe you two will hook up again but it WILL NOT LAST, or you two never would've broken up in the first place.
2006-07-06 07:12:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kind of had the same proublem...I guess all that I can say to you is if you really truly inlove still with your ex then I would go ahead and get back with him..Sometimes its hard because you might love both and if thats the case then I would go by is who you will benefit from. Also dont know your circumstances on why ya'll broke up but if he cheated then move on cause chances he'll do it again, not always but likely. I stayed with my new boyfriend because he provided me more "commitment, love and stability"Good Luck, follow your heart and think it over with your mind"
2006-07-06 14:05:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say if you love the guy your with right now more then your ex why make that an issue or a question in your head? Just move on away from your ex be happy with what you have right now.
2006-07-06 14:01:07 · answer #3 · answered by Heather L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let your ex know that you are in a deep and serious relationship with your new b/f and that you would like to keep him as a friend but nothing more. Don't mess up a GOOD thing just cause some old toy wants another round.
2006-07-06 14:03:03 · answer #4 · answered by Valorie and Cipriano M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, What you have to realize is that you are the most important person in your life. Without you it wouldn't exist so you need to do what is right for you. You said that you love your current boyfriend? Then "stand by your man." Tell your ex that you've found someone that treats you wonderfully. And he shouldn't want to jeapordize that for you. He may be hurt, but he'll find someone else. Remember:
Never leave someone you love for someone you like because someone you love will leave you for someone they like.
2006-07-06 15:23:11 · answer #5 · answered by sage_vixen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the ex he is history. Stay away from him or risk ruining your current relationship.
Because someone wants you back is certainly not a valid reason to run back to him. If he wanted you, he should have made that decision before the split.
You should stay away from ex. He is already in the book, history.
2006-07-06 14:02:26 · answer #6 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should simply do what you feel you can live with. That is why it is not recommended that people jump from one relationship right into another. A lot of times you are still carrying feelings of pain, hurt, resentments, and a whole lot of other emotional baggage, and usually you carry all these issues into your new relationship. You and only you have to deal with whatever decision you make so make it and then stick with it....Best wishes
2006-07-06 14:05:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you love your bf more then just tell your ex that you don't have any more feelings for him and tell him it just wouldn't work out. But if he is willing to wait until you and your bf break up then let him. Tell him to love/adore you from a far distance!Just try your hardest to get through this!!
2006-07-06 14:04:43 · answer #8 · answered by daddygirl100193 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love your BF more, then tell your ex you don't wanna get back with him. It is simple, but I know it is very very very very very hard because I am in a similar position. But you can't have them both, its one or the other. You love the BF more so I would encourage you to stay with your BF. I'm assuming he makes you very happy, so which would you rather? It all boils down to your happiness my dear, so choose wisely.
2006-07-06 14:01:34 · answer #9 · answered by sassy_sexy_honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is an ex for a reason, think about it and tell him why you don't want to be with him. Just think about why it ended in the first place.
2006-07-06 14:00:32 · answer #10 · answered by kellyjo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋