This question points out how weak minded you are. I'm sure your husband has already told you that you are a moron. Perhaps he smacked you around a little bit. You've probably already caught him cheating, or have sufficient evidence that he has been. So, do something right for once and get out of that relationship. Find someone who will love you and care for you.
2006-07-06 07:23:41
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answered by azheelshock 4
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if you can, check cell phone bills for any unfamiliar numbers that are called frequently. Especially at odd times of the day like early am or late pm. If you find a number that's questionable, hide your caller id when you call. It's even better if you call that number super early in the am, for example when most people are sleeping like 4am. Chances are you'll get a voicemail with a name. I would also take a glance through the car, check under the seats, glove compartment, visors, etc. I would also pay attention to see if he has bought any new clothes, underwear, cologne etc. lately. Does he pay more attention to his appearence nowadays?? All could add up that he's up to no good. Also check bank statements, credit card bills for bar and restaurant tabs. Are there any ATM transactions lately that have been coming from one particular area lately? Could be near a place he's been lurking around, close to her place maybe.
2006-07-06 08:08:00
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answered by honeybaby729 3
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Most men are well stupid when it comes to covering their tracks.. and they have horrible memories compared to women.. start asking alot of round about question keeping track of his answers, do they differ from the last time.. Check phone bills, hit redial on your house phone when your gone for long periods of time and he is home.. If he is going out somewhere check and see if thats where he really ends up (bar ect) or tell a gf to just happen to show up at the same place to see what he's up to.. Go through the car (glove compartment) go through his wallet go through his jeans looking for reciepts, numbers ect.. IF hes really cheating on u, there will be some kind of clue's , and since u obviously have a PC check the history on the computer as well..
2006-07-06 07:30:56
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answered by brwneyedgrl 7
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What is with people nowadays. Obviously if you are asking this question there is something VERY wrong with your relationship.
You have two choices, try to fix it or leave. Focusing on whether or not someone is cheating is like patching a gunshot with a bandaid. There is much more at risk here.
2006-07-06 12:58:41
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answered by tm_tech32 4
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Is he wearing perfume out of the sudden?
Is he working out now?
Has he bought new clothes?
Odd charges on the credit card?
Making excuses to get out of the house?
Consistently being late coming back home?
Picking on fights with you so he has an excuse to get out of the house?
Licking his lips a lot?
Getting antsy when out in public with you and desperate to come back home?
Not answering his cellphone when with you?
Best way of catching a cheating husband is to show up unexpectedly at work, or where he is supposed to be at the moment.
Check his emails and credit card statements
Follow him in a car that he won't recognize.
Good luck
2006-07-06 07:29:04
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answered by Blunt 7
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I caught my live-in boyfriend cheating on me on mere suspicion. A woman's intuition is strong!
I watched a friend of mine go practially insane trying to find things on her husband. She checked their savings/checking accounts to see if there were strange transactions, also got itemized bills of their cell and home phone. Stuff like that...
2006-07-06 07:30:39
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answered by cinnamon_latin_doll 3
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My ex-Girfriend accused me of cheating on her every couple of weeks and I never did anything. Not even flirting or a phone call nothing. I went to my father's funeral out of town and she accused me of making up that story to go see a girl. I took a picture of myself with my camera phone at the funeral and emailed it to her. I shouldn't have done that, but I did out of frustration. Point is....he may not be cheating at all and if accused,... that may be damage that can't be repaired.
2006-07-06 07:56:02
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answered by stoneriprock 1
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Don't even bother checking his cell phone bill. I worked in a call center and had TONS of men AND women call to have numbers and names deleted from the billing. Yuck.
Anyhoo, if you are serious about wanting to catch him... hire a PI.
2006-07-06 07:10:55
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answered by sahm2boys 4
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If you doubt his fidelity enough to become a PI you already know everything you need to know. Catching him proves he's cheating to who? Him? he KNOWS he's cheating and on some level so do you.
Don't waste valuable time and energy. You don't need proof of crazy to move on.
2006-07-06 07:26:05
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answered by darling 2
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Well think about this you probably know anyway,you just don't want to face it.If you are looking for a sign,you know.You probably aren't going to see with your literal eyes anyway. But you are a female use your intuition.
2006-07-06 07:33:16
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answered by glo 1
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