i was going out with this guy for awhile (guy 1)... then we broke up... & i went out with some one else (guy 2)... then that ended... & noe there is someone new (guy 3) sort of... but the guy 1 still talks to me about some of the same stuff he use to talk about... it is like we are still going out sort of... what should i do???
2006-07-06 06:53:42 · 29 answers · asked by *JL* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
guy 1 -> still talk like we use to... he compliments me, ect.
guy 2-> we talk but not as much... infact he just yelled at me the other day...
guy 3-> we talk but he doesn't seem to be acting his usual self...
idk... what do i do???
2006-07-06 09:00:23 · update #1
guy 1 -> still talk like we use to... he compliments me, ect. (something might be there)
guy 2-> we talk but not as much... infact he just yelled at me the other day... (there is nothing going on between us... it is over)
guy 3-> we talk but he doesn't seem to be acting his usual self... (something migth be there)
idk... what do i do???
2006-07-06 09:01:49 · update #2
(nicknames) name they call me...
guy 1 -> jen (&/or) baby
guy 2 -> jen (<- doesn't talk to me that much any more)
guy 3 -> jen
2006-07-07 02:43:33 · update #3
no, u guys are not going out no more! maybe he still have a thing for u but u never know! ask yourself if u really like him. who do u really wanna be with? (in your heart) u cant have both of them thats for sure, make up ur mind before u lose both of them dear!
2006-07-06 06:56:41 · answer #1 · answered by Jade 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, well i think that you just need to find the right guy, i went through a lot of guys as well before i found the one, i don't think that you and guy one are still going out, he just likes to talk to you still, maybe he wants to get back with you but if you are happy with the one you are with right now(guy3) then tell guy 1 that your not interested in him anymore. You probably will still go through a few more guys till you find the one that you were suppose to be with, i know that it gets hard sometimes and you might fell that no one will ever fall for you but i bet that sometime soon you'll realize that you've found him it takes time just like anything else. But one last piece of advice don't tell him that you love him unless you truly mean it.
2006-07-06 14:01:32 · answer #2 · answered by bedardfriend 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guy one don't even think about a relationship w/him. Guy two is gone. Let guy three know up front know what you're looking for, so there will be no more time wasted ,as you already have done.
Guy one sound's like he maybe interested, but just need's help getting to the point. You could just cool out for a while and think about what you want. Hang out w/friend's for a litle bit.
You know the saying female's mature faster than guy's.
2006-07-06 14:02:50 · answer #3 · answered by Shay~Shay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are open with all of the guys in your life that you are "talking" to more than one then you should be fine and you are being honest. You want an open relationship where you can explore (but not sleep with) different options that you may have. Find out who you like the best, who you have fun with and can talk too. Also remember that you have history with guy 1 and it is easy to fall back in with someone you feel comfortable with, remember why you broke up and weigh your options and be open to guy 4,5,6,etc.
2006-07-06 13:58:19 · answer #4 · answered by jessica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a little time for yourself. Get over one guy first, before moving on to another. Meeting guys on a rebound is never a good thing.
Guy 1 is history. Guy 2 is history. Guy 3 will be history if you don't forget about Guy 1 and 2.
2006-07-06 13:58:53 · answer #5 · answered by JustAdude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had a similar situation - there weren't three guys, but there were two...the first one blew me off for five days. I started talking to the second one during this time, then guy number one calls back and says he got scared, and can we be friends. Well, after that guy one started asking to be friends with benefits....Long story short - I wouldn't be friends with benefits with guy one because I wanted something more, so, guy one has blown me off yet again....If I were you - I would focus on guy three, and forget about guy one completely. If you continue talking to guy one you will be in limbo because you will constantly be wondering where things are/may be going with him instead of focusing on guy three who could be a great guy!
2006-07-06 13:59:41 · answer #6 · answered by Sally Mae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys only want a female friend for two reasons.....they are gay and really do prefer the company of women or they see you as break in case of emergency. This means guy 1 is still hoping to sleep with you. you broke up for a reason.....dont go back unless he is willing to make ridiculous sacrifices or will do lots of sweet wonderful things to prove his undying love for you. I hope you get the point I am making that there are plenty of other guys and you dont need this one.
2006-07-06 14:02:17 · answer #7 · answered by princess_mel17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should decide which one of the guys you really care for and stop playing around. Then, you need to stop calling (and/or talking to) the one that you do not choose and leading him on if you don't want a committed relationship.
2006-07-06 14:01:26 · answer #8 · answered by gmommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let guy one know that you care about guy 3 and that you want to keep you relationship with guy one on a friends only bases.
2006-07-06 13:58:54 · answer #9 · answered by Valorie and Cipriano M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may have just had an easy relationship with guy one that now that its over you guys are just friends but it seems as though you are dating but if you are still worried the next time you talk to him ask and make sure you don't go out just to make sure or you may still have feelings for him
2006-07-06 14:00:56 · answer #10 · answered by black_rose8666 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋