i am 16 and my boyfriend is 20.we have had unprotected sex several times but he did not ejaculate inside me even once still im worried as to whether ther are any chances of me getting pregnent?i cant afford a pregnency do-it yourself tester.how else can i find out if there are any chances?
2006-07-06 05:58:06 · 39 answers · asked by simi roy 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
yes, you can still get pregnant, and you are too young to be having sex.
if you can say "i cant afford a pregnency do-it yourself tester" then you surely cannot afford a baby, and that my dear is what you are going to get if you don't start using protection.
and throughout my experience I would guess that since your boyfriend is either a) stupid enough to not know that you can get pregnant by having sex without a condom or b) rude enough to tell you otherwise that he will not stick around if you get pregnant. it's not worth it kid, it's just not worth it.
wait until you're old enough, and start asking questions before you jump into something...hopefully you will think harder next time.
and to answer your question more throughly, there is something called pre-ejactulation and it happens when a man gets excited, and he doesn't know when that is coming.
the "pullout" or rythem method is only 70% effective (which means that everytime you have sex you have a 30% chance of getting pregnant, thats a really really good chance!)
and the only other way to find out if you are pregnant is either go to the doctor for a pregnancy test, which is going to more than likely cost you more (but will be more effective then the do it yourself kind) or just wait until your period (which you will not have if you are pregnant)
don't stress about it now, there is nothing you can do about the past, but you can start using condoms now, you can get them for free at most hospitals, or pregnancy clinics. http://www.plannedparenthood.com is a great place to learn about sex, and everything that it entails, read up girly because if you are having sex you should at least know the facts!
(and I'm not talking about the facts that your boyfriend tells you, I'm talking the real facts.)
2006-07-06 06:40:33 · answer #1 · answered by Kay Eliz 3 · 7⤊ 5⤋
Why you girls take such chances? Although I know guys always sweet talk girls into sex. Don't fall for it too much. A gentleman would not take advantage of you and will use a condom!!! Since you had sex on the last day of your period, you should not get pregnant. If you start freaking out, your next period can be delayed. Only a testing kit can surely tell if you are pregnant or not. Take the test 10-12 days after having sex. If you cannot afford it, ask your bf to buy it for you. Even if he does not ejaculate in you, still you can get pregnant as the pre ejaculate may contain traces of sperm. But you are on pills so you wont be pregnant I am sure :)
2016-03-19 09:36:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might have pre-ejaculated a little bit and there are still high amounts of sperm in that. So, there is a chance you could be pregnant. The home-pregnancy tests don't cost that much, I'm sure if you boyfriend loved you he'd pay for it. Take one whenever you can, or go to a health clinic. But first I think you should talk to your parents, honesty is a good thing and they have a right to know. Since you aren't using a condom, you should be on birth control, your parents can probably pay for that, so you really should talk to them like I stated before. I still don't understand WHY you are allowing this to happen, 1) because the age difference is illegal and 2) you clearly know the risks. Good luck, though, and in the future be more careful.
2006-07-06 06:05:07 · answer #3 · answered by Tranquility 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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i had unprotected sex with my boyfriend but he made sure he did not ejaculate inside me will i get pergnent?
i am 16 and my boyfriend is 20.we have had unprotected sex several times but he did not ejaculate inside me even once still im worried as to whether ther are any chances of me getting pregnent?i cant afford a pregnency do-it yourself tester.how else can i find out if there are any chances?
2015-08-07 18:45:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-03 00:10:56 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anytime you have unprotected sex you can get pregnant but if he did not ejaculate in you it is more likely that your not!! If you have a $.99 cent store they do some times carry a pregnancy test. I'm sure the two of us can come up with a dollar!!! Also you may want to go to a clinic in your area and get free condoms!!!
2006-07-06 06:07:15 · answer #6 · answered by mbg25 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Pre ejaculation isn't really the problem. Most inexperienced males have difficulty controlling the ejaculation process (i.e. pulling out). Therefore, since a female carries most of the burden when it comes to an unplanned pregnancy, I suggest that all females recognize that though pre ejaculation is not as full of sperm as the real deal, they are still in the concoction. The point here is that you shouldn't trust someone else's ability to control themselves with your fertility decisions. Protect yourself girls - make them wrap it -- everyone and every time! (Disease - another reason)
By the way, don't listen to boys who tell you they can't feel anything with a condom... that is a load of crap!!!!! They will tell you whatever they want to get what they want. Besides, if he can't feel anything, then he will last longer and you might actually get off!!!! If you get that "line" from a male, ask them "Would a condom feel better to you than not getting any?". Ha!
PS Can't afford a test? It's like, $12. Ask a close friend to help out.
2006-07-06 08:57:18 · answer #7 · answered by Genie 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Okay, believe it or not you can still get pregnant from pre-ejaculation. If youve missed your period obviously thats a sign. Still, even if your not pregnant, consider yourself lucky. Dont continue to have unprotected sex. I dont think you would want a child right now and neither would he. Your still susceptible to STD's and infections you know. Stop having unprotected sex as good as it feels its not worth it. Get on birth control. Use condoms. Be safe. Better safe than sorry....and you dont want sleepless nights. Take care good luck....My blessings to you
2006-07-06 06:04:16 · answer #8 · answered by Cloe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this thread is very old but my hope is that who ever needs to see this today will be led to it...
My first honest suggestion is to not have sex with someone you are not married to(a member of the opposite sex) All forms of sexual immorality are wrong and lead to problems in ones life, (as in your concern.)
All men are like basket ball players, they dribble before they shoot. Then pulling out everyone is pissed off because they did not score. This semen does contain sperm and can fertilize an egg.
The rhythm method can be very effective it the female is regular with her menstrual cycle and it is adhered to strictly. The Female fertile days are the 13th, 14th and 15th days after she stops her period. No sex the week before and after the 14th day is a really safe policy. Of course there are other methods of birth control that are as effective as condoms but do not protect from STD's. A committed monogamous marriage is the safest you are going to get except for celibacy. Once the egg is fertilized the baby has a right to life. Adoption is viable.
Think about making healthy choices for yourself that promotes self respect..
2015-11-01 15:21:42 · answer #9 · answered by The Doc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. because men pre-ejaculate and they do not feel it and you still can get pregnant and you being so young older men will tell you anything to have sex exspecailly unprotected sex with a minor. you should talk to your schools health teacher or see your doctor. your boyfriend should be in jail sorry
2006-07-06 06:04:43 · answer #10 · answered by sarah k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋