2006-07-06 05:55:36 · 7 answers · asked by pulchritudinous 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Well, I think one of the cons would be getting your *** beat up.
2006-07-06 05:57:17 · answer #1 · answered by jessica_lanelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm all or nothing type of person. Each relo I have starts with the talk about who will be sub or dom. I prefer to be at the helm as dom. I am therfore the bradwinner and he must do as I say, ultimately. I sometimes have the opposite relo. Where he is dom. But I find the ship isn't run tight enough and ut can drift in to nothingness. I do like discussion its better than arguing.
2015-10-16 23:14:02 · answer #2 · answered by sophie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I don't think D/S is a good foundation for a relationship. Because D/S is basically emotional role playing and those who make it a way of life are isolating themselves from the full range of emotions and subtle give and take in a relationship. Additionally with D/S each person suppresses one side of their personality for some "spiritual and emotional transcendence" when it's not about them anymore it's about the experience. Mind games. With a relationship outside of that it's not about dominance or submission, a relationship outside of D/S is about a balance between the two, a shared balance. In D/S there is no sharing, it's always either top and bottom.
2006-07-06 06:01:01 · answer #3 · answered by alwaysbombed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on you.,,.,.,.,.,.Most of the time in my relationship I am Dom. so when we get to bed its fun for me to be sub..... She realy likes to be Dom, but then every now and again I have to remind her that I am the man,.,Wink Wink.,.with out hitting her or yelling.,.,.
2006-07-06 06:01:10 · answer #4 · answered by ~~ziggy~~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was you I wouldn't do it permanently, I would only do it on occasion as a fun role play. The con of doing it on a daily basis would be you would loose your sense of self dignity and worth, it can be turned into physical and mental abuse.
2006-07-06 06:01:05 · answer #5 · answered by joyell222 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the dominant wants to take more control than the submissive can obtain.
Pros? It's fun to sometimes be submissive, or to take control.
2006-07-06 05:58:43 · answer #6 · answered by sedated.groupie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a lifestyle choice. Some people are into it, and why not? Can be fun if all parties consent.
2006-07-06 06:00:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋