i'm very very brood minded and i have loads of outfits and toys i'm willing to be filmed and have picyures took yet my bloke still looks up porn on the net and wap! i also have a VERY high sex drive but he'd rather w**k?
2006-07-06 05:51:36 · 14 answers · asked by haileyhs 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Perhaps this is his idea of being broad minded.
Ask him out right as to why he does this, or if there is anything he feels you are doing wrong or right.
It could be that he gets enjoyment from that as well as you.
2006-07-06 05:57:54 · answer #1 · answered by Gill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A womans idea of a high sex drive and a man's are two completely different things.
Some blokes just need the feeling of self-gratification. So long as he is harming no-one and all of the porn he looks at is legal, why does it bother you. You already said that you are so openminded, can it be that you are not as openminded as you think?
2006-07-06 06:04:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most blokes look at porn, there is nothing wrong with it as long as it doesn't affect your sex life, which it obviously is. I think he is just being lazy and getting his kicks without all the effort of pleasing someone else as well
2006-07-06 05:58:49 · answer #3 · answered by chinablue_8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a woman, I can find porn quite arousing but not all the time. Sometimes I want my man to focus on me and me alone. To find me personally arousing and for us to be totally absorbed in each other. I think you are saying that you feel left out in your own sex life.
2006-07-06 11:13:05 · answer #4 · answered by stella9everytime 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about it, it sounds to me like he is just another typical guy. All men like to look at porn even if they are with someone. My husband does and yes it bothers me to a degree, but at the end of the day it is me he is with. You need to think the same.
2006-07-11 10:35:22 · answer #5 · answered by megajen2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else!!! Thats sick!!! There are too many fish in the sea to waste your time on someone who looks at porn all day!! Good luck!
2006-07-06 05:58:53 · answer #6 · answered by eva diane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's male, he thinks with his penis, what more can I say? Next time tell him you want to watch porn with him, stick on some man on man action, start friggin and watch the look on his face!
2006-07-06 06:18:23 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me looking at porn is titillation its not what you always want to do ... but its exposure and curiosity at how others do it... but not neccesarily being unfaithful in any way just another form of entertainment.
2006-07-13 05:33:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
until i read the last bit i would have said thats blokes for you but after you saying he would rather w**k just dump him and find someone else
2006-07-06 06:04:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont all men have a nosey at porn whether single or coupled? i cant answer as to why tho!!
2006-07-06 05:56:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋