last night he told me that he knows that i fantasize about him. he is straight. i am embarrassed. i do not remember that i told him. and yet i feel weird cause it seems that he does not mind it. which confuses me, is that his own ways of telling me that its ok to fantasize about him, or is he giving me clues that he wants to experience my fantasies?
2006-07-06 05:49:52 · 7 answers · asked by patric 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I'm thinking that he may just be overly flattered by that. It tickles him that you want him and he feels like a prize. Kind of mean to dangle himself that way though.
You've wondered long enough. Time to ask how he feels about you fantasizing about him. I'm sure he'll say it's alright. Everyone loves being adored, doesn't matter who it is. However, is this just going to go on and on with only frustration for you?
I also have to wonder if part of the allure for you is that he is unobtainable. It's like they always say, "The more forbidden the fruit, the sweeter the pie."
Find a time when you two are alone. That could be in a crowded room as long as no one else is listening and then just carefully come out with it. As him if he just might be open to a little favor or two. Sounds corny, but it might just work and wouldn't be too brash to get you beat up in case you are wrong.
Good luck!!!
2006-07-07 10:05:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
My straight friends have always been open to the fact I was gay. Years ago when I was alone and hurting a committee of them got together and offered to have an orgy with me so that I wouldn't feel lonely.
I love my friends.
I would think its ok with him -- it really is ok with most straight people who don't have hang ups -- I would not presume that he wants the experience though. On the other hand, give him a back massage, but be prepared for just having a really good, close friend.
Kind thoughts,
Reyn
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2006-07-06 07:08:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy it would be hard to construe this any other way than that he was coming on to you or at least opening the door to the possibility. I would ask him what he thinks about the fact that you are fantasizing of him? It just might open that door a little wider.
Good luck and be careful.
2006-07-06 05:57:11 · answer #3 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously "HE" has either been there already and "HE" is packing his bags and ready to go(with you). Yes he wants you to give to him what you are dreaming about. The fact that he even mentioned it seems to me that you're not the only one that has been "dreaming" about the act. Go for it as soon as you see a crack in the door. HE"S WAITING. Go get him boy :) Good luck!
2006-07-06 05:58:08 · answer #4 · answered by jusb4dawn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be curious to see what it could be like to be with you. In so many words, it sounds like he may not mind experimenting with you.
2006-07-06 07:38:25 · answer #5 · answered by ccharleston81 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no, fool!
i found out my friend was gay and he thought that was a signal to hit on me
i cussed him out and we've never been the same again
2006-07-06 07:37:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go for it he might be straight but men that are straight have gay trendies
2006-07-06 06:12:21 · answer #7 · answered by Beatifulhunnie1984 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋