I am so in love with this man . its not like we are children. we are 57 and 53.. he is divorced 1 yr after 38 yrs. i am divorced 5 yrs after 32 yrs.. he is very scared of the work committment i am ready for it.. i love this man and there is nothing i wouldn't do for him.. he on the other hand is never on time.. i see him at his convenience. he stays all night with me when he want to not even if i ask him to stay with me.. but he is the most loving andkind man i have ever met.. he has a son and dtr the son is 38 yrs old and i can not be a part of his family life because his son can't stand to see his dad with another woman other than his mtr. my children (all grown) love this man to death.. i want us to get married or at least spend more than 2 nights a week together.. I truly love this man but this thing about him supporting his ex. (who he caught in the bed with his best friend ) and jumping every time she or their son wants anything is killing me.. please help. does he love me or not
2006-07-06 05:48:10 · 3 answers · asked by SANDY KAY 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would say that he does love you. However, he has been badly burned and has to come to terms with his own situation and make the decision to move ahead with his life. A 38 year old son should only revere and blindly obey his father; not tell him what to do or borrow money or yaddah. His ex is just that; "EX". If you can find an older, wiser, respected, etc, type person to sit down with him and have a little "Come To Jesus" meeting of the minds you may be able to iron out these wrinkles in your life. My best wishes for you.
2006-07-17 03:50:51 · answer #1 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honestly, if you have to ask if someone loves you, they probably don't. I can say that without reading any of the other information.
After reading the information, it sounds like he is on the rebound and using you to fill a hole. I am so sorry. I would let him go. He is still hurting, and he is hurting you. Real love hurts sometimes, but not like that.
2006-07-06 06:30:18 · answer #2 · answered by mountain_laurel1183 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it doesn't sound like he does. Painful as it is, usually a relationship so soon after such a long marriage is just a rebound relationship. Sorry. :-(
2006-07-06 05:50:56 · answer #3 · answered by locolady98 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋