We've been together for over three years, we have been fighting and were breaking up, and i'm freaked out 'cause he detailed everything he does to fight with me and get his way with things, and the way he makes me feel by this and how he knows i will respond and what i say, and how he can do with me whatever he wants... but he acussed me of doing it to him! and when i told him that is sooo what HE does to ME, not the other way around, he said i was trying to confuse him, and trying to make him believe that everything's his fault....that i'm sooo an evil mastermind! when it's him who's trying to turn things around! i love him and i'm shocked that he would play head games...what for? what's your opinion on this? ever manipulated anyone and for what purpose? is it possible that we could both feel the same way, i mean that i think he takes advantage 'cause he knows i love him and so does he? he's driving me nuts!
2006-07-06 05:46:28 · 3 answers · asked by jade 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You both need to get counseling and get away from each other. This is far from being a healthy relationship. Good luck.
2006-07-06 05:52:35 · answer #1 · answered by Andi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every relationship you will ever have is in someway a matter of manipulation whether you conciously realize it. So you are both right and the longer you are together the more you will each know exactly which buttons to press to get the other person to do what you want.
2006-07-06 05:54:01 · answer #2 · answered by willinkc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i kno dis iz goin 2 b hard u gon hav 2 break up wit him. cuz dis iz not a healthy relationship.i kno u luv him but u gonna hav 2 get ova it.
2006-07-06 05:58:49 · answer #3 · answered by The Original Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋