I am very turned on by women. I dream of them, I look at them. I think they are beautiful. I've had these feelings for a while. My first experience came when me and one of my homegirls tried a threesome. I didn't participate with her only him and i was really uncomfortable. My next one was with this lady who i didnt like and she hated me. I had a relationship with her 10 year boyfriend, we fell in love and he moved in. When we stopped seeing one another after 2 1/2 years she hated me. I use to think about kissing her just to shut her up. Maybe a power trip who knows. Well she felt the same way and we had a mutual friend who kinda let it slip. Well anyhow, we did it. I enjoyed it somewhat but after that i dont ever want to sleep with a woman. She is crazy, calling, trying to come over. Want me to move in. Just plain crazy. What is wrong with me. I dont want to have sex with women but i am still turned on by them, big time.
2006-07-06 05:41:52 · 12 answers · asked by annaz 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
you're a lesbian, then.
2006-07-06 05:45:01 · answer #1 · answered by babyxgirlxskye 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are simply suffering from the end result of some bad choices that you've made. You probably will never cease to long for another woman, once that experience has taking place it's all over in that department of not " wanting" to sleep with another woman, some people "choose" not to but the desire will never go away. Hey you just really put it down with that woman, you were on a mission to redeem yourself, and from the sound of it, you did. Now she's just clingy. You need to let her know truthfully, that it was just something that you had to act on at the time, but you don't have those type of feelings anymore towards her. That could of happen with a guy as well. It had nothing at all to do with it being a woman. Next time be careful with how you work the shift in your ride, and who you choose to be a passenger in it, makes sure they're headed in your direction:) Good Luck.
2006-07-06 06:20:39 · answer #2 · answered by jusb4dawn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coming to terms with being bisexual is a tough thing really. You face lots of discrimation from both sides of the fence. One good thing about it you will be able to have what mainstream culture considers a normal relationship but you have to deny your other desires to do that. It is very difficult to balance the two out and hard to live with. You will always second guess your decisions when it comes to relationships. Follow your heart and it wont lead you false.
Good luck during this trying time.
2006-07-06 05:54:12 · answer #3 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ditch her for sure!! she's psycho and sleeping with someone for a power trip is a big turn on but won't be healthy for either of you. if you're so turned on by women why not keep having sex with them? is it guilt? you don't necessarily have to stop sleeping with men. it's just sex. if you feel an emotional pull... talk to an open minded closed mouthed friend that won't betray your thoughts but can help you sort them out. there are worse things than being queer.
2006-07-06 06:37:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's ok don't freak out! i'm a 23 year old wife and mother I had a threesome like you and now I really am turned on by women.. I still like to be with men but just the thought of a women I want to do it again....use it to your advantage...and don't worry so much about it...alot of women are turned on by women they just will never admit it!
2006-07-06 05:47:39 · answer #5 · answered by JeNe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you're bisexual: you enjoy intimacy with men--and an occaisional trip in bed with women. Plenty of ladies out there like you--and with their head on right too (unlike your bed partners).
So.....your question REALLY is ?????
Hey: it's evident you need a friend who'll listen to you; evidently you have a lot bottled up you need to just get out of your system. Well....I'm here if you need that ear to listen to ya.
2006-07-06 05:47:04 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm a fit lean muscular white male interior of america. i'm continually regarded at like i'm a rapist and many circumstances women human beings or perhaps female adult men take more beneficial steps to attempt to stay away from me. Feminism demonizes adult men and victimizes women human beings.
2016-11-01 07:34:50 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be lesbian or bi sexual or not. It is worth some research. Check with your local Lesbian,Gay,Bisexual,and Transgendered Center.Google it.read a book called "The Bi sexual Option" by Dr. Fritz Klein. Be well.
2006-07-06 05:57:26 · answer #8 · answered by wildrover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you had enjoyed the experience and deep inside you crave for that experience to happen again. so relax, just let things happen. you are a lesbian. thank God.
2006-07-06 05:45:45 · answer #9 · answered by patric 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u're bi... maybe u should try relationship with a girl and see how it's comin.. then u can know exactly whether u r straight or bi and then u can move on with ur choice....
2006-07-06 05:47:44 · answer #10 · answered by soupp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your mom for advice.
2006-07-06 05:44:37 · answer #11 · answered by ndmac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋