She invited me to go see her at her job (local gentlemens club).We had a few drinks and the next thing I know there she is stripping her cloths off and grinding on me with just a thong on.
2006-07-06 05:28:01 · 24 answers · asked by Chase L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's fine as long as your wife paid for the lap dance.
File this one under "things I will never ever tell anyone else about"
2006-07-06 05:31:58 · answer #1 · answered by jdscorrupted 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely!!! Why were you going to see her at the club sans wife anyway?! If it was innocent you BOTH would have went! And did you let her "grind" on you or tell her to cut it out NOW? She's obviously trying to break you and her sister up! What kind of person is she to do that to her SISTER? Now I think relationships (gay, straight, multiple partner) are the business of those in them and could care less but what you're talking about is a major breech of trust!
2006-07-06 05:38:37 · answer #2 · answered by Grimm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah... That's wrong. Would you like it if she went out with the girls and had a male stripper doing something like that?
You drank a little around this woman and she likely had that planned. Be wary of any further interactions with her, and I'd be worried about your wife. Her sister *might* feel guilty and cry to her sister about it.
Start focusing on you and your wife and never visit that club again while her sister's there.
2006-07-06 05:33:26 · answer #3 · answered by Wowzer-Bowzer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what's really wrong ? You asking this stupid question. Dont you already know the answer ? Of course you do but like every other man you have to act dump like you didn't know. Well you already got the lap dance and showed your colors. Your poor wife. Her sister sucks and so does her husband.
2006-07-06 05:32:18 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That pretty much depends on what your wife would say, doesn't it?
It sounds as if you did not encourage the behavior, but did you stop it? I'd advise staying away from her club until you are certain no one will be hurt. At the very least, it's WAY too complicated.
2006-07-06 05:43:02 · answer #5 · answered by LazlaHollyfeld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its more so wrong then right. You know it. Do you have a brother? Want him to dance for your wife? Think not! You are opening up a bad can of worms, don't tell it, do not go there again. Women can be very messy, she is using you to do it. They are sisters, one will tell you be gone, they will be mad but eventually make up while you be a divorcee..
2006-07-06 05:46:08 · answer #6 · answered by ced56 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are guys so weak. check it out.. ANSWER THIS QUESTION. DO U WANT TO LOSE YOUR WIFE.
I know your question is No....
1st of all YES it is wrong u seeing your sister in law almost nude. that is nasty, the only person u need to see nude is your wife not the sister in law
DON'T see this as her job.. see this as family issue. I know for a fact your wife will get pist off at you & her, cause its wrong, Its going to messed up your marriage
I Say stop it, and tell your sister in law, to back off, she going to messed up your marriage. and you need to stop checking her out. your wrong man....
2006-07-06 06:20:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Duh!!!!!! Consider youself in a messy divorce! Since I'm so sure you haven't even told your wife when you felt that sick feeling in you gut when you realized the answer to your own question! P.S. her lawyer will love this evidence you posted on the internet!!! DA! and I don't mean district attorney hope their aren't any children involved!!!! If so , consider them messed up in the head for life and missing one Aunt!
2006-07-06 05:39:21 · answer #8 · answered by unohu54 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on Mannnn, you know that's wrong! Why even put yourself in that situation! You should have told her no thank you! That was just the overplay for the underplay. Get it!
2006-07-06 05:33:13 · answer #9 · answered by Boss' n it 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it depends if she is really hot. If she is just ok looking, then I would skip it to save any trouble that might arise from your wife finding out, but if she is super gorgeous, you should screw her on the side.
2006-07-06 05:33:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋