How do you get so lonely like this..?

Question

I mean, my first love commited suicide. How do you get that lonely, and how can you be so selfish? How can you have all those feelings? I just don't get that. That's one thing I'll ask God.

Answer 1

That's a shame.......sorry to hear about that. Some people get just so depressed, they feel there's no way out. They don't realize that suicide is a permanent solution to an only temporary problem. They get so self involved.....that they either don't see, or don't care that they'll hurt anyone else. The bad thing about it is there was nothing you could have done about that, so you need to start getting over it. Sorry for your loss. I only wish you the best of luck..............

Answer 2

A persons on insecurities can put up barriers so intense they cannot be overcome, and finally they simply give up, I would like to express my condolences on the loss of the one you loved, the only advice I can give is that they may be gone from us, but I tell you now, and I believe this to be true, that they are not gone for good, if you live your life right, you will see them again, and I agree with you on asking God, out of everyone in this world, I am sure he knows.
There is only one thing I know that you can do to help yourself,....find another, start over, this you can do, the one you loved so loved you that they would want you to go on and love again!!ALL MY HOPES!!!

Answer 3

baby girl, i feel your pain. he was just stupid to take an easy way out. morn for a while. go and have a good cry.

Answer 4

u need time.. life will show u direction

Answer 5

Better you don't get it .Don't worry about it continue with your life.

Answer 6

i dont understand it my self,,hope i never do