How do you know when a relationship has come to an end? If it has come to an end; how do you break-up with someone who you are in love with and always want to be friends? I just can't sleep with the dogs in bed nude or play second in his life to his friends insults, or his ex's assinine behavior. Is there any chance of savaging this relationship?
2006-07-06 05:12:53 · 13 answers · asked by Swordfish 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Try talking to him and telling him all of this...tell him you really love him and want to make it work but if he cant compromise then its best you two go your seperate ways. Sometimes that will do alot to help your relationship. On the other hand if your ready to move on then the best thing to do is be honest and tell him its time for yall to break it off but you still want to be friends. You never know how it will end till you try it
2006-07-06 05:18:55 · answer #1 · answered by Texas_at_its_best 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well, you know when a relationship has come to an end when you feel like neither of you feel it is worth it to put any more effort into the relationship. You see that they are just indifferent about it, and that they really couldn't care. But if you two can make it work being friends in the long run, then go for it. Some might say that being friends would never work, but you can always take that risk. If you still feel something for them, talk and express your feelings!
2006-07-06 05:17:14 · answer #2 · answered by aLyxoxo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The end of a relationship is sad but you know it is over as well as he does you just haven't made it formal. You need to just pack your bags and tell him you still love him but you can't continue in a relationship where you know there is no future. He will be hurt but I am sure he will not be shocked. Hopefully you both can be mature about the breakup and stay friends. But that is hard to do when you have been intimate with someone.
Good luck dude.
2006-07-06 05:44:11 · answer #3 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you tell him that you feel as though you are second. Tell him what is bothering you so much. Usually you can tell when a relationship is over when you don't have the same feeling when that person walks into the room. You don't laugh any more. when it just comes right out boring.
2006-07-06 05:16:02 · answer #4 · answered by ronce_1118 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the Chump
2006-07-06 05:22:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the guy has problems. Just end it. You may love him but I bet you don't love him enough to put up with that mess...i.e your question. Soooo... just pack it up and call it a game. He lost. You can do better~~
2006-07-06 05:17:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk first with your mate, agree on a compromise, then both of you should act on it, and most importantly, set a time table, like you'll both act on the compromise for at least three months or so, and if nothing happens after three months, then maybe that's when you both call it quits.
2006-07-06 05:20:01 · answer #7 · answered by toohevi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will know. he will tell you. or you will feel it. don't be afraid to be alone again if he breaks up with you. start your life again. do not be sad because the relationship ended but be happy because it happened.
2006-07-06 05:18:39 · answer #8 · answered by patric 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you've tried talking to him to no avail, it's over. good news tho: the gay community is waaaaaay to small to be evil about it unless one of you is moving out of state. so be amicable. even if one of you is moving, you never know who you'll run into at the next white party.
2006-07-06 07:01:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him.Find someone better :)!!Good Luck!
2006-07-06 05:15:54 · answer #10 · answered by abercrombie_lover101 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋