what should you do if your ex wants to talk back with you and you want to talk back with him but you already have a boyfriend and don't want to break his heart
2006-07-06 05:10:15 · 8 answers · asked by Quilla33 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think you need to search your heart for that questions. How did it end with your ex and what has changed since then that makes you want to try to make it work again? Are you happy with your current boyfriend, or is this a good excuse to get out of a relationship that is not working. Only you know the answers.
I will say to take into consideration taht sometimes we tend to cling to the familiar even it is not what is best for us. Also know that guys cannot stand it if we find another boyfriend and be happy with them, even if they really don't want to be with us and they try to get back with us to save their own bruised ego, then dump us when the other guy is out of the picture.
2006-07-06 05:16:38 · answer #1 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to follow your heart. Talk to your ex and if you think things might work with the two of you and thats who you wont to be with, you have to break things off with your current bf. Dont worry about breaking his heart because if you want to be with someone else, you are eventually going to break it anyway. Its better to do it as early as possible when you have less time invested in the relationship and then you get to be with the guy you want sooner. Also, if you wait to break up with your current bf for the ex, the ex might not wait around. You have to decide what you want and go for it. GOOD LUCK!
2006-07-06 05:24:01 · answer #2 · answered by NBGirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, Karma is a ***** be careful. He probably wants you back because someone else has you, make sure. Plus you have to ask yourself about the break-up is it worth it. Some relationships are meant to move on. You all may have broke up before the love was gone and that is hard because you tend to hang on to each other cause of that. So take your time and compare the two men and see who is better for you. Be careful and take your time. Oh, and if he cheated for get about it, much love.
2006-07-06 05:25:17 · answer #3 · answered by nina_ross692000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who are/were you happier with? Would you rather spend your life with current or ex or try to lose them both? You just have to figure out which one you love more. No matter what, someone will get hurt.
2006-07-06 05:18:07 · answer #4 · answered by Wookie on Water 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THIS IS A HARD ONE,BUT FIRST THING IS TO FIND OUT WHAT THE EX IS REALLY UP TO AND THEN IF YOU KNOW FROM DEEP DOWN IN YOUR HEART YOU REALLY CAN RETRUST HIM AND IT'S FOR GOOD, THEN TELL THE OTHER MAN IN YOUR LIFE ABOUT IT AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS FROM THERE.
GOOD LUCK
2006-07-06 05:16:29 · answer #5 · answered by DENISE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you already have a new bf then why do you want to talk to you're old one for. leave the old bf alone and stick with the guy ur with now.
2006-07-06 05:16:14 · answer #6 · answered by Angel sent from heaven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so tell him u cant talk becos u have a boyfriend now and u dont want to hurt ur boyfriend.
2006-07-06 05:33:48 · answer #7 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't talk to him that is the # 1 normal way to end a relationship
2006-07-06 05:20:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋