i had my son stillborn at 21 weeks. i haven't returned to work yet. i'm scared to face all my coworkers who already know. i don't want to hear their questions. i know some mean well but i'm afraid they may say something stupid and i'll start cryiing. any suggestions? thanks
2006-07-06 05:00:29 · 7 answers · asked by chapped lips 5 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I am so sorry for your loss. I have had 2 myself and both times found my coworkers to be very supportive. Most did not say anything except "I'm sorry." Your close friends at work may have already broken the news to everyone else. I am sure you are stronger than you think and maybe you just need a little more time before returning. Best wishes
2006-07-06 05:12:40 · answer #1 · answered by Kelly T 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I don't believe they will question you. Anyone with half a heart will feel sympathy for you and ofcourse they may not be able to feel empathy considering the tragicness of the situation. If they approach you and ask you something you feel uncomfortable answering, just say, "I'm not comfortable talking about this quite yet." It will take time. I'm sorry to hear the sad news. I wish you luck in the future!
2006-07-06 12:05:15 · answer #2 · answered by TS00 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've attached a link below...about half way down there's a section called "Dealing with Others" and then below that there's another section called "Events to Suffer Through - Going Back to Work". It's all about coping after a miscarriage. I hope it helps!
2006-07-06 12:22:01 · answer #3 · answered by Beck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you'll find that most people at work will be too uncomfortable around you to ask a bunch of questions. They'll probably just ask how you're doing. I, myself, would NEVER ask someone details about their miscarriage.
2006-07-06 12:05:10 · answer #4 · answered by hmpdds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go to a support group first, this way you will get use to talking about it. I'm sure this is a terrible feeling and will take time to pass. It is alright to cry, you have to. Just let it happen, as the bible says, this shall too pass. God bless you!!
2006-07-06 12:08:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you return to work, tell your boss to let your co-workers know that you don't want anyone to mention it!! They'll understand!
2006-07-06 13:40:01 · answer #6 · answered by Jen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell them that you don't wanna talk about it. If there are people who already know they may not wanna approach you on it but if they do jus tell them you don't wanna talk about it right now.
2006-07-06 12:05:09 · answer #7 · answered by sierra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋