I was out at a bar/restaurant with some of my girlfriend's on monday night, and I was feeling pretty tipsy. I walked outside to meet a friend who was arriving at the bar, and these two guys were standing outside, talking. One said to the other, "Let's go somewhere where not all the girls are drunk" and normally, I wouldn't have said anything since I didn't know them, but because I had had a few, I said, "Good luck!" They both started laughing and at that time their two female friends/girlfriends were walking up to them, and the guys said to them, "We're going to go hang out with her!" to which one girl replied "Yeah, well take away the fake hair and give her some bigger t*ts..." I didn't hear what else she said because I went back inside. Now, I don't deny that I dye my hair - I'm a natural redhead, and my hair is platinum blonde- I have no disillusions about that. And I have 34B's and don't feel the need to shove them out in everyone's face, and they are actually kind of big for my...
2006-07-06 04:40:13 · 15 answers · asked by Nonna 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
body, since I'm only 110lbs. I wish (of course I didn't think of this until the next morning) that I had walked up to that girl and said, "You know, it's pretty sad that you are so insecure you feel the need to insult a perfect stranger" or perhaps "I'd rather my hair color was fake instead of my t*ts" or something... what would you have said if you were in this situation?
And what's the worst insult you've ever had directed at you and how did you come back to it?
2006-07-06 04:42:15 · update #1
Who cares? I would never even give that a second thought. I would have just ignored them, it's just their insecurity talking since they saw their boyfriends talking to you. Don't harp on it. You should find a better place to hang out, it doesn't sound like the classiest place in the world. Any comeback you could have thought up would probably have started a fight. It's much better to take the high road and ignore ignorant comments like those.
2006-07-06 08:29:07 · answer #1 · answered by akc1106 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I developed early and had a lot of curves really young, so the worst insult I ever had was in high school gym class, when a guy tried to look cool in front of his friends by calling me "thunder thighs." I didn't even say anything, I just turned around, raised my eyebrow, looked his skinny gawky body up and down, and turned away laughing. I was never made fun of again. At least not to my face.
2006-07-06 11:47:25 · answer #2 · answered by Susan R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't have said anything to them. Just consider the source and forget it. They were jerks and I am sure you deserve much better treatment. Love yourself just the way you are, their opinions were nothing. It isn't the color of your hair or the size of your boobs that matters most, it is what you have in your heart. Jesus said some times we have to shake the dust off our feet and go on, this is a case for that.. Consider the source and don't give them another second of your precious time. I'm sure you are a beautiful and wonderful girl.....Good Luck.... : ) A Mom
2006-07-06 11:52:39 · answer #3 · answered by Jan E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, had you had the chance, you could have responded, " well missy, even with the fake hair and small ****, your men still wanted to dump you and hang with me. Obviously you are lacking, not me". Then you should have walked right back inside and acted as if she was only a waste of your time.
2006-07-06 11:45:23 · answer #4 · answered by haray11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walking away was a good move...giving her a disdainful up and down glance before hand would have been good, too. Anything more and you're stooping to her level.
2006-07-06 12:25:11 · answer #5 · answered by mury902 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,I would have told her to go screw themselves.And I would have said I don't need two vibrators to get me off.I would have said fu-ckin' dyke.
And the worst thing I ever said I don't even remember.I say such things so many times everyday.I have hurt every person I liked.I love me.
2006-07-06 11:47:29 · answer #6 · answered by eminem197796 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you hang around in bars you will meet the kind of people who like to hang around in bars.
2006-07-06 11:44:44 · answer #7 · answered by at_window 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't even bother responding to people like that, i assure you that the people were not even talking about you- they just wanted to say some insults... don't even give it a second thought, and most of all don't justify that they are wrong by explaining to yourself that 'yes your t*ts are quite big'..etc.etc.. people like that have nothing intelligent to say anyways.
2006-07-06 11:51:11 · answer #8 · answered by Who am I? Who are U? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at the guys that the girls were with and say, "I'm sorry, what did your friends just say? I didn't understand them. I don't speak Dog!"
2006-07-06 11:47:10 · answer #9 · answered by awaterfall4me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are making too much out of a couple of people who you don't know, and are probably jerks anyway. Forget about it.
John
2006-07-06 11:45:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋