Pregnancy: I need help!?

Question

My BF and me were last Sexually active around May 16th, after that date he went up to Seattle to visit family and is still there. I am almost 20 and hes 25.

Everytime we have had sex we used a condom. Once the condom kinda messed up, I dont know how, and another time it ripped. And for 5 seconds we had sex without a condom because I had never felt it that way.

Now I was a virgin, and he took my virginity so I was new to the sex thing and was adventurous. So I tried alot of different things with him, but also had my limits.

Anyways, after the first 2 weeks or so after he left I started getting nausiated alot, but over time that passed. I still feel sick sometimes but not as much anymore.
Not long after I started having to pee alot more than usual. like I never had to get up to pee at night, now I have to once or twice at night.

I know im looking to much into it, but even at the slim chance I could be pregnant, theres still that chance, I think..

Please someone help lol

Sorry the questions so long... but Im kinda scared

moms gonna kill me if I am!

Thank you guys,

I havnt been working myself since may :P

Just started worring today since I relized how late my period is, then looked up signs of pregnancy and put peices together.
Maybe I can talk my older sister into driving me to the store...

Hope Im not, Im to young!

Thanks again, if shes awake Ill go ask her now, I believe she needs to go out today anyways. :)

BAH,
Daydreamr,
You realize I WAS experimenting, and as it being my first sexual partner, and I had only just started having sex my hormones were running pretty high.
We had protected sex, we just went 5 seconds without a condom so I could feel what its like without one.

I DO act like an adult and Im not just saying that to defend my name. I just assumed everything would be fine since it was only 5 sec.
We did use Spermicides. and I DO have an appointment on the 19th to get a pap, then birth control.

So! Please dont judge me, because you odnt know me.

And again, Thank you everyone else.
Ill make sure not to leave the test on my dresser, :P

Answer 1

First of all, no, your mom isn't going to kill you - she's very likely going to be disappointed, but she'll get over it pretty quickly. Second, you say the last time you had sex was May16th? What about your period, have you had one since then? Kinda an important factor. The only way you're going to know for sure sweetie is to go buy a home pregnancy test - be sure to read and follow the directions. Every woman is different, how their bodies handle the hormone changes of being pregnant. If you are or could be, yes, the nausea and need to pee alot more can be early signs. Get a test, I know it's scary, but you need to know either way. Good luck, and you can write to me anytime. I was in a similar situation regarding my first child... :)

Answer 2

Have you skipped a period? have you gone to a doctor? Have you taken a home pregnancy test?

Either way, you should be helping YOURSELF. You say you're almost 20, which means you are an adult, So, ACT LIKE ONE and show some responsibility.

First, get a home pregnancy test, follow the directions and take it. If it's positive, make an appointment with a doctor. If it's negative and your period doesn't start in a few days, take another test.

Meanwhile... GROW UP. Do not under any circumstances have unprotected sex. Condoms rarely break unless they are used incorrectly, so you should use backup birth control as well. Spermicide, at least. Or make an appointment with the doctor to get on the pill, and until you've been on the pill for a full month, continue to use condoms AND spermicide.

If you're not willing to take responsibility for your reproductive health, keep your legs closed until you ARE a real adult.

EDITED TO ADD: I see your response directly to me. I will reiterate the point that it doesn't MATTER if it was your first sexual experience or your 500,000th. Birth control and sexual health are not things you can take lightly, nor are they things that you can be careful about "part time." You should not have been having sex in the first place until you were on backup birth control (i.e., the Pill, the patch, something to go with the condoms).

The fact that you're in this mess and afraid your "mom will be mad" shows just how immature you are. My advice still stands. Keep your legs together until you grow up.

Answer 3

I agree with all that has been said - also... if you are freaking out.. getting that nervous feeling all the time.. stomach in knots b/c you think about it all the time.. and you're actually NOT pregnant - your body could think you are. If this is the case, it could cause problems. Your body senses distress and when you are stressed, it causes your cycle to go crazy. So, try to be calm and although it seems like it is all you can think about, if you try not to, you could see some difference in your cycle. The "peeing a lot" could also be due to nerves. Your URI muscles contract and relax - if you're stressed and not drinking enough water, this could lead to a urinary tract infection.

Answer 4

Hey woman, I was 20 when I got pregnant with my son. Go immediately to the drug store and get a test then get an appointment with a doctor have them do a test also. Depending on the result you have a choice to make. Make your choice.
Personally, I made my choice and my son is amazing best thing ever.

Answer 5

Well first of all since you are 20 I think your mom shouldnt yell at you are anything but take the test from walmart since its cheaper and if it says no and you are still feeling sick go to the docter. If you are craving for ice cream that is a sign and if you are still on your monthly feminine event you arent pregnent. I WISH YOU THE BEST OF LUCK!!

Answer 6

You should go and see a doctor. He'll be able to tell you if you are pregnant or have an infection or illness. Don't worry. You have many options. Your mum wont kill you. She'll be mad at first but then she'll be excited to be a grandmother when the child is born.

Answer 7

Got get a pregnancy test and find out. There are a lot of reasons people pee more often and feel sick. It can also be a sign of diabetes.

Answer 8

If your scared of the consequences, your obviously not mature enough to have sex in the first place, and definitely not mature enough to have a kid. Play it safe, get a rusty wire hanger and do the blender. After that go join a convent your moron!

Answer 9

May be a urinary tract infection. But it could also be you scaring yourself. Definitely go get some pregnancy tests and wrap it up and get on birth control.

Answer 10

There is a chance if he " finished " inside of you. But if he just was in there for a few seconds I highly doubt it. Your probably worrying yourself for nothing. Go buy a test they aren't that much.