2006-07-06 04:31:46 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Not unless you think that in order to make it up all three of you should have sex together - because that would be the cool thing to do.
2006-07-06 04:35:37 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. Brian 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of the boyfriend. My best friend slept with my ex and 20 years latter we are still friends. Men come and go but friends are there for you. She knows it was wrong but you were not married so it is a free for all until the wedding ring is on.
2006-07-06 04:37:28 · answer #2 · answered by CharKaye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take alot of time and consideration. Be wise in your decision...has she hurt you before, if so how bad. Did she do it in a vindictive way? How long have you been friends with her, how close are the two of you...these are all factors.
If she has been your friend for years and you love her like a sister, then would you drop your sister for doing the same? Was or did your boyfriend pressure her? Were they drunk?
True friendships are like blood, they will, stay thick. It might take the two of you a long time to trust her again though. If you do decide to stay friends keep your guard up.
One thing though...
If you get burnt once, it was not your fault, for you did not know
If you get burnt a second time it is
If you burn yourself a third time...ur a idiot
AND...DUMP HIM
2006-07-06 04:43:22 · answer #3 · answered by jenisisgrafix 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither how can u trust either of them. Once a cheatter always a cheater move on. Your friend betrayed you, how can you trust her to be alone or around another boyfriend. IT WILL HAPPEN AGAIN IN BOTH INSTENCES!!! sounds like not much of a friend. I have friends that would never even think about it. They would come up to me before it happened, and they did. Those are true friends. Your friend will try to be cool with you so she can get the next victum............
2006-07-06 04:38:22 · answer #4 · answered by 800 bound 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that happened. I've gone through the same experience although the gender was switched to fit the situation. If it wasn't meant to hurt you, like if they were drunk or high or if it was out of an emotional episode, then I'm sure you two can work it out in the end. If it was his fault you should probably lose him, if she and he are smitten together behind your back then you can get a friend who actually deserves your trust and respect and friendship.
2006-07-06 04:35:14 · answer #5 · answered by rm2kdark_lord 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! Anyone that so claims to be your friend or even best friend would never betray your trust like that~ I would advise seeking real friends and keeping positve people around you! and as far as your boyfriend...if he cared for you and respected you..he would have never slept with your "best" friend or anyone for that matter!
2006-07-06 04:40:51 · answer #6 · answered by Mercedes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forgivness is a big thing but is she really a friend to you if she did something that obvioucly upset you and cause you pain. The best thing i can think of is to be nice to her but maybe not hang out with her unless it's in a group situation or at a party.
2006-07-06 04:37:17 · answer #7 · answered by divaintraing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was your real friend the she wouldn't of slept with your boyfriend. I say dump both of them. you deserve better.
2006-07-06 05:19:54 · answer #8 · answered by Haley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now lets find out the truth first, did she sleep with your boyfriend or did your boyfriend sleep with her?
there is a difference.
I suppose you could always try a three some, great for him.
2006-07-06 04:37:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be able to forgive her, but she's obviously not a true friend if that's what she thinks of your relationship with your boyfriend. She doesn't respect you at all.
2006-07-06 04:35:41 · answer #10 · answered by Sweettrumpeter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋