I have this guy who picks on me. This summer i had a dream that i saw him kiss me. What does that mean? I don't like him so why did i have that dream?
2006-07-06 04:07:32 · 15 answers · asked by sydsoccer15 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
It could be that you know deep down that he's not a bad person and he could be someone you could relate to... some people do mess with others because they like them but they are to shy or nervous to talk to them, you should probably try talking to him and ask him why he does it...
But then again it could have been that you have a little feeling for him but you dont want to believe it because of what he doe's to you. if you want to find out why you had that dream talk to him about why he picks on you and then you can better decifer that dream... Hope that helps
2006-07-06 04:15:52 · answer #1 · answered by jonbird1990 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the most obvious interpretation is that you know on some subconscious level that he likes you, and your mind is trying to make you aware of that. Even if you don't like him; if he does like you, you need to be aware of that. Or, if he stopped picking on you and treated you as if he really liked you, would that change your reaction to him?
Another thing consider is that many people believe that in your dreams, everyone else is you (or some part of you, at least.) Is there someone who you've been picking on, and you should be reaching out to them instead? Perhaps you were seeing yourself in him as you treat the other person poorly, and seeing yourself as them being treated more lovingly by you. A kiss in a dream is not necessarily romantic, but possibly a symbol of general love.
2006-07-06 04:19:51 · answer #2 · answered by M Huegerich 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe someday you will be in control of the situation and that is him on his hands and knees under your rule. I have always believed that a woman is in control of a kiss. Men forces kisses but women allow kisses. If you did not want to be kissed and you get kissed then most women complain of being assaulted. If you feel violated then the control comes into play by making a complaint with law enforcement and have the person arrested. If you liked the kiss then you allowed it to continue, and you may even let it happen in the future.
2006-07-06 04:13:46 · answer #3 · answered by klh7768 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've heard the philosophy that you are everyone in your dreams. Maybe you don't want him to pick on you and you really wish that he'd like you. Not as a girlfriend, but as a person. Maybe the kiss represents the only reality you can see right now, which is that this angry guy mighht only be able to like you as a girlfriend, rather than a friend.
I would say overall, it might be because you're sick of his crap and wish that he would stop picking on you.
2006-07-06 04:12:48 · answer #4 · answered by illustrat_ed_designs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its possible that you really do secretly like him but you dont want to. Or that you just think he like you.
Also, dreams are a way to organize your thoughts and memories, the day that you had the dream were you and your friends talking about kissing then he started in on the convos or did you overhear someone talking about you and him kissing? The possibilities are endless. It could be that you just had him on your mind before you fell asleep.
2006-07-06 05:20:05 · answer #5 · answered by smile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... if he were nice to you would you like him? That's all your subconscious is asking. You had the dream to determine why you don't like him... other than the fact that he makes fun of you. It's not a significant dream, just a hypothetical question.
2006-07-06 04:13:02 · answer #6 · answered by partydudette52 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is probably that you know him because a dream is when your brain takes some of your memory and create a random story.
2006-07-06 04:11:30 · answer #7 · answered by loanshark50 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To dream of kissing an enemy, signifies betrayal, hostility, or reconciliation with an angry friend. Consider also the saying "this kiss of death".
2006-07-06 04:15:19 · answer #8 · answered by angielj67 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't fight it. you know that secretly you want him to like you (which he probably already does like you [maybe he picks on you because he is attracted to you but doesn't know how to act on it. you know like a hair pulling seven year-old with a crush]). why else would all of this mean so much to you. next time he teases you just give him a flirtty wink... that should get him thinking.
2006-07-06 08:10:57 · answer #9 · answered by Friendly Neighbor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some would say that dreams don't mean anything. Freud would probably say that deep in your subconcious you're attracted to this guy, and you want his attention and affection.
2006-07-06 04:10:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋