Specifically, How open minded are you about gay people. Do you think loving someone of the same sex is a good thing? Have your ever experimented with your own sexuality. What scares you about gay people?
Please don't put any stupid comments with regards to what gay people do in bed sexually, cos that is not what this question is about, thank you.
2006-07-06 04:01:36 · 32 answers · asked by brapley2003 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Whatever two consenting adults do together is their own business.
We're all just trying to be happy!
I also believe that judging others in such a manner is not a human task and no matter what we THINK we know about God, we could be completely wrong. The Koran says the more you try to understand it (the book, possibly God too) the less you actually will. I go with that mantra.
2006-07-06 04:05:03 · answer #1 · answered by Kats 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nothing scares me about gay people, I just don't really understand it. To use a quote from (kiss kiss bang bang), "oh look there's an elephant lets drain its blood and use it to paint my boathouse".
My cousin is gay, has been for as long as I can remember (that was a joke) and she and I get along great. But I do feel somewhat uncomfortable around gay guys. That may be because the few gay guys I have been around are very steriotypical effeminent gay guys. That is just so far from my reality. I would probably feel the same discomfort around a starving third world kid with flies on his face. Anyway, I'm not really homophobic, but I'm not homophilic either. I do think that love is love and people should be happy, my cousin and her wife are.
2006-07-06 04:14:05 · answer #2 · answered by Kris C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not gay, but i just want everybody in the world to be happy.
I honestly don't understand why some people are homophobic- it seems so natural to me that people want to find happiness with someone they have feelings for- who cares if that person is of the same sex?
It is wrong that some small minded people take offence at homosexuality, and that they make those people feel ashamed of their feelings. I look upon straight people and gay people with exactly the same eyes, and i wish everyone the best of luck in finding love.
2006-07-06 04:12:59 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only a matter of sexual preferences! I did a lot of voluntary work with body positive, was the only female+heterosexual+negative status as opposed to the rest of the guys, all males, gay and hiv positive.
Their sexual repferences didn't bother me in teh least! It wasn't about what they do in bed or who they do it with but about raising awareness and helping out those who needed support and comfort because either infected/affected by the virus.
Experimenting with someone same sex as myself never was something i thought about because it would seem unnatural to me (For myself). Two of my best friends are gay men, live in a monogamous relationship, have for yonks now! And i love them both to bits and am happy because they both went through the mill before meeting each other so it's nice to see two people so happy together!
2006-07-06 04:11:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess same sex relationships may have more in common after all they say men are from mars and woman are from venus. You know mutual male or female interests. Woman are always wanting men to be more caring and understanding but these are typically feminine traits, so I am not sure what that tells you. Men have been recorded in stating woman nag and are clingy but less needy behaviour is a typical male trait. Apart from the biology of it all ie you know what you go for physically, what someone looks for in a personality could be better matched in same sex relationships. But we could recieve this closeness through friendship so who knows.....
2006-07-06 04:10:14 · answer #5 · answered by fizzycrystal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that gays couples are the happiest couples in todays society. They are so in love with each other and are quite happy to be around other people that aren't gay. They don't judge others because others aren't gay and we should respect what they do with their lives is their own business.
To each their own, just like religion.
2006-07-06 04:10:55 · answer #6 · answered by miss piggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm straight and don't mind gay peeps at all. The only thing that gets me is when some people (gay) act over flamboyant or super feminine, in the same case I don't like it when people act to or over ghetto. That's just my opinion.
2006-07-06 04:08:54 · answer #7 · answered by PhantumBG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think it is wrong. Leaving religion out of it. Human are supposed to be male/female. That is how we reproduce, this is how our species survives.
2006-07-06 04:08:18
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On the other hand maybe it is a natural selection to help prevent humans from breeding in to many numbers as we have been.
I just want to say just because I think it is wrong I have never and will never look down on a person who is homosexual, thats there choice.
I'm not very open minded. I worked with both a gay man and a lesbian and they talked openly about their experiences and it made me uncomfortable. I don't understand why the gay men I've encountered act bold.
2006-07-06 04:06:02 · answer #9 · answered by pamela_d_99 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't love a good thing? Does it matter who loves who? No. Happiness is all that matters. Same sex or not. Nothing scares me about gays.
2006-07-06 04:05:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋