I have 2 look PERFECT.WHY?

Question

I'm a really cute girl but everytime when I go out I mean ANYWHERE!I have 2 look perfect example:
1.hair done perfectly
2.make up done perfectly
3.dressing perfectly
3.and my clothes have 2 match everything of what I'm wearing
when I do look perfect I look like a model
its ok with me but
I'm fed up fixing my self 2 perfect and now I wont exept
2 look casual.
but I can look casual becoze I'm very cute without makeup and everything. THEN WHY CANT I?????

Answer 1

Try this-go through the whole look perfect thing-then mess up just one thing- rub your lipstick off, or put on a clashing scarf-if you do this enough, you may get to the why bother? point.

Answer 2

kay. so I read in uhh...I think it was Teen Vogue or Jane, not sure which one, but they had a top ten list of the most annoying qualities about girls these days. the ones I remember are half the ones you have up there. they were putting such a bad rap on perfectly styled hair how every girl has that iron-flat hair and it's abnoxious. and really it is. you need a chill pill because natural is the way to go. I'm not saying ban looking good and taking pride in yourself but really if you're spending over an hour getting ready in the morning, you must not be very pretty or confident inside or out (without the extra stuff you add on)

Answer 3

see your just perfect and somtime that's not good even when u know your that perfect try to keep it something simple like no make up u said that u look cute without it so why put it on and hair is always important to now thta i can understand clothes wear some hills or shoes blue jeans and top but the top does not have to match you belt can and your shoes so thats what i think i hope u use this edvice

Answer 4

It doesn't sound like your okay with it. Obviously this quest to be perfect is bothering you or else you wouldn't be ranting about it on yahoo. The truth is no one can make you change , and in the end it's just you that has to ask yourself why you do this and if you want to continue this lifestyle. I'm betting no one thinks about how you look as much as you do anyway.

Answer 5

The problem with perfection is that its an ever moving target.

One day you'll be old and may be you won't like what you see in the mirror anymore.

Focus on inner happiness, not fleeting outer beauty...

Answer 6

Apparently you're insecure about your looks,even though you keep telling everyone how cute you are. If you're so cute,then you don't NEED to try so hard,and tell everyone HOW cute you are the time. Perhaps you're obsessive compulsive. Do you do this in other areas of life,too,or just this part?

Answer 7

Ok I can give you and answer it is you just like looking really nice when you go anywhere. I'm the same way! Does that help Hit me back asap

Answer 8

you're 4-11 and fifty 8 pounds?! you're narrow expensive. perhaps you meant 158 pounds? if that is the case attempt strolling prevalent and not in any respect ingesting sugar and white flour, and placed on a gloomy slimming colour like black or army. good success!

Answer 9

cause you know that with makeup you look evene better...and subconscioussly u are aware that attractive people often are very successful in all life areas...i have got the same problem...you have to admit it to yourself and decide i n what situations you prefer not to be percet..eg going to the sop around the corner..and then stop taking care of how you look in the very moment..

Answer 10

You believe society expects it of you, so you conform to those beliefs. Raise you self esteem, know you are beautiful anyway, shrug your shoulders and start making short trips out casual. See how it goes.