when i say to ppl that i am virgin why do i get a bizaar look like whhhhhooo?

Question

as a muslim we belive in sex after marriage, but when i they say if i am a virgin they give the most bizaare look!

Answer 1

No one needs to know. You have just made public one of your most guarded secrets. If you will reveal something so private about yourself what will you reveal about them when they are not there?

Answer 2

it because that the teen have sex when they are between the age of 14 - 17 is when teen have sex because of the guy now a day the guys see or hear the word virgin from a girl they think fresh meat it also a known fact that most guy not all but most guy just have sex for the fun and to have the girl loses their virginity they see you as a girl that they can't have a they want but once they get you they don't want you any more and this is coming from a guy now I'm with you on this one i going to wait till I'm married to loses my virginity to the girl that i will spend the rest of my life with and you not the only one the ppl go whhhhhhhhoooooooo to they do it to me but the girl do that and they also do that aaaaaaaawwwwwwwwww how cute or sweet dill that why i know this and I like to read ans research alot so i hope i answer your question and now hope you can answer one of mine own have a nice day P.S. I type to much

Answer 3

I know exactly what you mean. First they look at me, then my parents and you know they're thinking these are crazy people. Most people have no concept about what it means to wait until marriage. As one of my cousin's friends put it, "you don't buy a car without test driving it first." It amazes me that guys want fun now, but when they get married they want you to be pure. The word virgin is not used that often any more. Probably the best thing to say is that you are practicing abstinence.

Answer 4

Virgins are a special dish. People tend to wonder what makes you better then them. The fact is, it's an intelligent thing. When you look at sex in all it aspects, it has things that when you think about it they're not sanitary and they're even insane things.

We see two dogs licking each other and we get disgusted, but we do the same thing. It can be said that sex has become a perversion and you are not; at least not yet.

Answer 5

Because virgins are a rare thing these days. Everyone is into the whole modern culture of sex before marriage. There's nothing wrong with you and don't let yourself feel that way because of people's look. You are entitled to make your own decisions and choices. I know how you feel because I'm a virgin too. I get pissed off by the looks sometimes, but honestly I think 'its my life and my choice, boo hoo and your thoughts'.

Answer 6

don't get embarrassed because you are a virgin. hey! i'm a muslim too and still a virgin. those who give ya bizaar looks tell them about your religion and beliefs, and i bet ya they'll stop teasing ya!

Answer 7

today people look at virgins as like goody goodies or something like that. just ignore them. i think its good to wait till after marriage to hav sex. just be like "yea im a virgin, what of it?" and im sure theyll leave you alone. if not then just kick them in the shins..lol jk dont do that. dont stoop to their level.


keep on keepin on

Answer 8

cause people think sex is a sign of growing up and fi you dont have sex.. they think youre not mature.. sex is supposed to be the
facotr that makes you grown.. but believe me.. all the premarital sex is cause people to have children without proper parenting abilities and fatherless homes.. marital sex is a worthwhile thing

Answer 9

You don't have to say it out loud to people. Whether you are a virgin or not, it is your problem.

Answer 10

That's something you don't have to go talking about, unless you are being hit up for sex.