Do they try to cheer you up or get mad at you if you aren't all cheery when speaking to them? Tell you you have no right to yell at them even if its just a little sarcastic tone and then ignore you because according to them your bitter. Is being stressed from kids and wanting a little help and understanding being bitter? BTW its okay for them to act snippy or yell if their the one in a bad mood.
Sorry I felt like venting today. This is what my husband acted like. We are now separated.
2006-07-06 03:36:30 · 5 answers · asked by JustWant2B 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He ignores me. From what you said, you have every right to want to stuff him in the garbage can. He overreacts to your stressful times (when it sounds like you have a right to them) and cuts you down over them, while on the other hand, he gets to do what he wants for no good reason (which is funny that he calls you bitter... what's his excuse, the dork-idiot). You vent all you need to honey. You were right, he was wrong, kick him in the nads (okay, maybe that's what I want to do... never mind) and find something with someone that doesn't tear you down like this bozo did. Keep your chin up and good luck.
2006-07-06 03:42:23 · answer #1 · answered by dark_storm73 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girlfriend you sound like the rest of us moms out there. it is nothing wrong with wanting a break or a little help with the children or just wanting help period! With me, sometimes, i feel it best he leaves me alone because all he does is gets me frustrated even more by asking me whats wrong as if he already doesnt know. But then there are times when i seek his attention and get even more mad when i dont get it. So it's a toss up to how you want them to react and yes you are right when they get in a mood, the world stops. Honey all you need is a little patience and hopefully the person you are with has patience as well. that's all part of being in a relationship, being able to vent and get over the problem when necessary btu if you choose to ignore the problem, yes it will only get worse. My advise, take a vacation away from the kids and your man!
2006-07-06 03:42:45 · answer #2 · answered by shawny2623 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd bypass for a kiss. Kissing and hugging by using your relatives delivers an insurance that no count number number what, the will continually be with us. even as anybody is in a nasty mood they choose such assurances. If i'm in a nasty mood because of my spouse and he or she needs to furnish me a kiss then it fairly signifies that she feels sorry and he or she needs to kiss and patch up. And even as she is taking this variety of step to handle the difficulty then i'm not a fool to disclaim a kiss to her. In any circumstances, i imagine that is a competent theory to kiss your spouse. it may help you sense extra acceptable even if you're in a nasty mood. although, if the spouse insist on love making, you should gently refuse asserting that you at the instant are not in contact.
2016-11-01 07:26:05 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, honey. My hubby just ignores me when I'm in a bad mood. It's not worth getting in a fight over if my hormones are in an uproar and he's man enough to know that. Thank God.
2006-07-06 03:39:48 · answer #4 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOTHING RIGHT
2006-07-06 03:39:55 · answer #5 · answered by JULIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋