I like this boy who is 14 and I'm 13 and he's like a inch or two shorter then me I don't care. I REALLY like him a lot.He's cute,funny,polite.He's perfect!
But how do I let him know I like him and How do I find out if he likes me.
I see him once a week.
Oh yeah and he's shy about that kind of stuff.He's not a shy person but once the other people that go to the Homeschool group start talking about dating, girls, guys, kissing.He shys a way and trys to get it off that subject.
I want to be really good friends with him.And hold his hand and stuff like that before I try to be his gf.I want to be his gf when I'm older like at least when I'm 15 or 16.
But I don't know what to do!
Help!
2006-07-06 03:22:48 · 24 answers · asked by pinkjade93 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Oop's I forgot to say I am in a homeschool group thats how I met him.
And I don't want to leave him a letter thats so young.
2006-07-06 03:27:30 · update #1
I'm starting to be friends with his twin sister too.
And guys don't worry I'm not going to start dating untill I'm 16 I just want to be best friends with him!
2006-07-06 03:33:47 · update #2
And I'm shy too.
2006-07-06 04:00:32 · update #3
be his friend. if you push aside your desire to be his girlfriend, youll be more comfortable and he will quit being so shy. hes got to trust you. and please dont break his heart once he does trust you.
2006-07-06 03:26:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Become his best friend... U 2 r too young... if u want to date him n he's shy then invite him normally for a lunch or a movie until he feels comfortable with u... He'll like u with time... try spending more time with him n take his phone number so that u can contact him n may be discuss about ur classes to start with... this will help him getting closer to u n help u knowing him better... all the best
2006-07-06 10:27:42 · answer #2 · answered by Rose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be his friend 1st so that you can keep in touch from there little by little start giving him clue that you like him he will not pick it up the 1st two or three time but after awhile he will then he would start giving you clue if he like you and if not he would tell you that what me and i girl friend did she start to talk to me one day then we became phone Buddy's from there i ask her out and we been together going on a year and a half and 7 day good luck hope you get your wish and have a nice day too now may you can answer may question. P.S. I forget if you get to gather or not you both will be really good phone friend i bet you
2006-07-06 10:36:50 · answer #3 · answered by Mark C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is quite possibly one of the sweetese stories i have ver heard but i am not sure what to say in a normal situation i would say just talk to him get to know everything about him and try and find out why he is shy about dating and talking about it when you complete that task and it may take a while to really get to know him then you are all set to continue with telling him that you like him
2006-07-06 10:27:41 · answer #4 · answered by skits 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TALK TO HIM!
Honestly...this shy crap doesn't really you get anywhere. If you want to wait then just start by being friends. You have to start by opening the lines of commucation. I honestly think half the problem is we don't talk anymore. Just engage him in conversation and go from there. You'd be surprised what happens when you say hi or how are you?
2006-07-06 10:28:04 · answer #5 · answered by clarnely_2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be in such a rush to grow up. You are only 13 years old.
I only allowed my children to have group outings until they were 16. This allowed them to socialize and make friends with both genders.
Organize group activities that he could be invited to. You are only 13, so don't limit yourself or cut yourself off from your other friends at this time. Movies, pizza, bowling, or what other interests you have make great teen outings.
Good luck!
2006-07-06 10:30:19 · answer #6 · answered by mama_wizard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient. He is probably wondering the same thing. Just keep being nice to him and don't rush him. It takes time to grow into a good healthy relationship. If you rush into things that is when mistakes happen. Look at some grownups, they rush into a relationship because they don't want to be alone and it turns out to be a big mistake. Take your time, love will happen for you, don't rush it.
2006-07-06 10:37:25 · answer #7 · answered by laurelbush28762 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about all that "stuff" just be his friend, exchange e-mail and phone numbers and talk more than once a week. Now don't bug him by calling too often, but an e-mail a day can't hurt!
Good luck and don't hurry it!
2006-07-06 10:26:36 · answer #8 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young to be worried about stuff like this, but write him a note or by him a card. Ask him to respond. You have nothing to lose.
2006-07-06 10:27:53 · answer #9 · answered by Dancer3d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him if he wants to hang out sometime - grab something to eat etc. Just make it casual. Make it clear you like him but don't come on too strong if he is shy. Good luck!
2006-07-06 10:28:25 · answer #10 · answered by savagescorpio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get his phone# from someone in this group and give him a call. he might be more reseptive to you if he isn't around a big group of people. then invite him over to your house. just become better friends first! good luck and have fun!
2006-07-06 10:28:31 · answer #11 · answered by hilton hottie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋