pre-marital sex means no sex before marriage. If I never get married, I could never have 'pre-marital' sex. Then that shouldn't be a sin, right?
2006-07-06 02:57:31 · 25 answers · asked by hichefheidi 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes. Lots and lots of dirty sex. Sweaty, humping "f*** me like you mean it!" kind of sex.
It's only after you get married that it stops.
2006-07-06 03:08:14 · answer #1 · answered by buzzzard 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush to have sex because you feel you will never get married. Have sex when in your heart it is right. Even if you never get married you may fall in love and that may be OK. You may also need to have sex if not having it is preventing you from finding the man you would marry or thoughts of what sex is like interfere with being happy now. Ideally we should do what the Bible says and wait for marriage...absolutely...but I don't think God would want you to suffer either especially if you are generally good.
If you will have the greater sin of resenting God then have sex and ask for forgiveness. If you don't have sex don't torture yourself for what might have been. If you do have sex then let yourself enjoy it guilt free but pray for guidance.
2006-07-06 03:26:32 · answer #2 · answered by Ben Jammin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Premarital sex isn't going to damn you to hell. Long story short, I used to believe this but no longer do.
In the bible days, yes, people were married but often had many many wives and sometimes concubines. Christian men, too. No one objected to that in the bible. Yet, it's wrong now? Why?
My point is, the idea of what is right and wrong has been constantly changing (and will continue to do so) over the years depending on your religion, culture, etc. Just do whatever YOU feel is right, not what some book says.
By the way the word "sin" doesn't mean something horrendous. It simply literally means, "To miss the mark"
2006-07-06 03:07:19 · answer #3 · answered by spike_is_my_evil_vampire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wrong!!! if u never get married u can never have sex. sex without marrige is a big sin people do it all the time. u can get married and have sex. but having sex with another person while ur married is adultry. and thats not a good thing
2006-07-06 03:04:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is a very logical way of looking at the situation. Go ahead and have all the "I'm never getting married sex" you want.
2006-07-06 03:09:19 · answer #5 · answered by snuffy_muffy_eater 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keying in on the word "sin" im guessing that your religious and dont want to go against your beliefs.. and what your doing is trying to come up with excuses for yourself to be able to have sex, and you cant negotiate with the bible, it is what it is, it says what it say, no twisting it to suit your needs.. Is it a sin if u dont ever get married, yep, because unless your dying tomorrow u cant say if you'll ever get married or not, people change the older they get and their decisions change on alot.. but dont try to make excuses to suit your needs with the bible, wrong way to go..
2006-07-06 03:31:30 · answer #6 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time and enjoy sex! and don't feel bad about it. Life's short and sex is amazing when you meet the right person. You don't have to wait for a husband to discover that.
2006-07-06 03:45:39 · answer #7 · answered by Mark T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you not worry about sex for a while. You might want to find a man worth marriage first.
2006-07-06 03:03:35 · answer #8 · answered by redunicorn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about your loopholes... haha. Lovin the logic there.
Technically, you're right, but how do you know you'll never get married? And also, are you worried about sinning against God, or sinning against yourself? To each his own, in my opinion... it all depends on your own personal moral stance and what feels right to you.
2006-07-06 03:02:21 · answer #9 · answered by i_turn_on_lights 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's still a sin to have sex if you are not married.
2006-07-06 03:02:05 · answer #10 · answered by pamela_d_99 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't buy into that silly catholic thing agaisnt sex when not married. If you find someone you care enough about to be physically intimate, by all means. Go for it!
2006-07-06 03:01:05 · answer #11 · answered by Uncle Tim 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋