I got her in the bad books at school, but she gave me no chiose and i was the right one. Now she is angry with me and i apologised for something i didn't do. Should i let it go or hang in there with her pretending i don't exist. And its affecting the rest of our group now.
2006-07-06 02:57:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I don't think you should carry on like that.talk with your friend and tell her you are unhappy if she's really your friend(after 3 yrs i would think she is)what happened if u want to tell me my email is townleyjade@yahoo.co.uk.i don't know how old you are i'm 17 but if you send me an email i will answer promise.good luck
2006-07-06 03:12:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, she's probably hurt with what you did to her in school. People do hurry to judge but when others are mad at us we don't like it do we? My guess is that she is crossed with you and she is getting back at you now. If you love her talk to her sincerely and get it all out on the table from both sides. There is a chance you guys are not compatible any more...so what? This will happen in your life many times more. If it's a friendship that is worth it you'll both find a way
2006-07-06 03:07:06 · answer #2 · answered by Flea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about her she sounds like a ***** and every school has them if u haven't done anything wrong then what have u got to be sorry about stand up to her stop being a walk over she obviously knows she can get away with it so she will keep on doing it! u got in her bad books what is she gods gift or something stand up to her I'm sure your not the only person who is feed up with her try it i bet u come out on top!
2006-07-06 03:07:04 · answer #3 · answered by blondebirdcrazy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing to apologise and if she does not want to forgive you then let her go, she will be the one to regret. You dont force a horse to drink water.
2006-07-06 04:01:01 · answer #4 · answered by God you are my all in all in Jesus' name 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lordy lord- iwas totally in this situation a couple of years ago- my best friend of 9 years- she was very stubbord, spoilt and got her own way- i didnt see it and just sort of trotted after her like a lap dog, as i got older stuff really started to annoy me and I had got to the point of thinking I cant be her friend- she would get cross with me really easily- it all came to a head after one night out- she had a new phone and basically lost it in a club- AND BLAMED IT ON ME- i hadnt even touched the dam thing
and that was the end- pathetic really- I was really upset after coz we had been so close, but a couple of years on its probably one of the best things i did, I gained my own confidence-
Advice- Friends come and go- you will meet loads of people in your life and you WILL know who you're real friends are
Good luck!
2006-07-06 03:03:16 · answer #5 · answered by charley_chunk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her some time and keep away from her... women usually reflect very often, she will reassess what happened and will talk to you on her own in her own time... dont give up, jus give her some space. everyone is unique in their train of thought, so at some point there will be disagreements.
2006-07-06 03:10:36 · answer #6 · answered by fate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her ur srry and what ur feeling inside right now, friends forgive each other
2006-07-06 04:28:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never ever say sorry for something you didnt to.Dont let it go.you have to talk to her,talking and communicating is part of growing up.It would be so silly to lose her friendship over something so trivial.take her to one side away from your other friends.say can i please talk to you for a minute?talk it through,clear the air.tell her you value her friendship.
2006-07-06 03:07:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her go, its goin to be hard but u dont deserve, friendship is based on trust and if she doesnt trust u she isnt a true friend
2006-07-06 03:01:00 · answer #9 · answered by Victoria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient and try to talk to her and prove your innocence.
Good luck
2006-07-06 03:06:25 · answer #10 · answered by Adrineh Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋