2006-07-06 02:48:57 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There isn't enough information here for anyone to accurately assess your situation.
My idea of a fight is knock-down drag-out kick some butt stuff. If that is the case, take your kids and get out NOW without ever looking back.
2006-07-06 02:55:36 · answer #1 · answered by carmilysmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are like me then you are in a "single-mom but in a relationship" type deal. I am married but I am the one who is taking care of the kids, disciplining them etc. I think that you should work out your differences for the kids sake. Its hard. When people suggest finding a sitter or someone to look after your kids so you can get a break-that is a dream world. No one wants to look after kids-thats the problem with things. If your fights are about the kids and no time to be together-that is the way life is. One day they will be 18 and out of your house and then all you have is an empty home. I think you do love them you just need to work things out.
2006-07-06 10:03:43 · answer #2 · answered by hatingmsn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is very important, and I believe that Love is what is going to get all four of you through all of this. I HIGHLY recommend rushing out to the bookstore and buying a book called "The Five Love Languages" by Gary Chapman. There is also a Men's edition for your boyfriend, and a Woman's edition for you if you both would like to read it at the same time. As a man, I can tell you for a fact that the most universal way to let him know that you love him is to show him respect. You'll be surprised how much your respect will drastically alter his mood. When you respect him, he will respect you in return. With mutual respect, love can grow stronger, and disagreements can be resolved easier and quicker before they become full blown fights. I'm not suggesting that you don't respect your boyfriend right now, but I am recommending that you might try to go out of your way to show him additional respect. Also, read the book. This book will help you both understand each other better which could be why your arguments begin in the first place.
2006-07-06 10:00:46 · answer #3 · answered by Douglas N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st you need to realize what the fights are about. You need to ask yourself if this is something that can be fixed, are these fights effecting your children, and how long have your been fighting? Only you can really decide whats right for you and your kids. If you luv your children then they should always come first and putting them in a situation where they may feel insecure will only hurt them in the end.
2006-07-06 09:53:47 · answer #4 · answered by exotic69n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you leave just because your fighting you should have never been in the relationship and you sure in the hell shouldn't of had any kids with him then, all couples fight just try not to do it around the kids.
2006-07-06 09:53:01 · answer #5 · answered by Missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fights are part of a relationship. You're not always gonna agree on stuff. Just be sure to work it out and come to an agreement.
2006-07-06 09:51:53 · answer #6 · answered by Dan S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree that you should get married and make-up with your boyfriend. it sounds like you guys love each other and that you should spend the rest of your lives together. all couples fight. you can't have a healthy relationship without blowing up in each others faces once in a while. he obviously loves you too or he wouldn't still be around. bottom line......make up with him!
2006-07-06 09:54:16 · answer #7 · answered by divaintraing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop fighting, go to a couples therapist, start communicating. Love each other and your kids.
2006-07-06 09:51:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, it won't always be sunshine, but rest assured it won't be raining always either. I just celebrated ten years of marriage. Went through H@# and back but made it through.I would not trade it for nothing. Been there did that and the grass was burnt to crisp on the other side.Love the one you are with and accept them for them. Arguing is good it makes for good sex after!!!!
2006-07-06 09:58:18 · answer #9 · answered by lashenica j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All relationships have their ups and downs i've been with my boyfriend for three years also and i have a son who he excepts as his own and we fight also the longer you're 2gether it will happen if y'all have a strong relationship don't worry about it y'all will make it thru it. It's normal
2006-07-06 09:55:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋