i have been married along time i totally love my husband and i lust after him, but i have been told that i am missing out and that i am boring , i have not slept with another man since getting married at age 16
2006-07-06 02:43:47 · 50 answers · asked by pussycat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Fantastic I say. Casual sex is massively overrated anyway, it's much better with someone you love.
2006-07-06 02:46:32 · answer #1 · answered by matt2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boring? I guess not being dirty or underhanded might not be someone else cup of tea but I'm sure your husband appreciates it. I'm not too sure why you're asking the question? Affairs cause drama and only lead to pain for both parties. Why would you want to hurt someone you love?
I'd say you're setting a good example for the rest of the world. It's not uncommon now to find someone who got a divorce because their parnter cheaped on them. A faithful parnter is harder to find because it seems society is trying to put a good light on screwing around.
If being boring is be faithful then I rather be boring then getting invovled in the drama and being tore between two men and running the risk of getting caught and screwing up the things you love. Mostly likely the people who tell you that are just jealous and should be taken with a grain of salt.
2006-07-06 02:52:46 · answer #2 · answered by clarnely_2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who told you that you are boring? If there were more people around with morals then there wouldn't be so many divorces going on. I've been with my husband for 5 years and have never and would never cheat on him no matter what.
One of the vows you say when you get married is to be faithful and you shouldn't have an affair just cos someone tells you to. They should be ashamed of themselves, and they're probably just jealous.
2006-07-11 01:22:16 · answer #3 · answered by Jackie R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why care what the others think? It's not boring to you. You've been married a long time, and your husband don't appear to be bored - that's what counts.
Maybe the ones telling you this need lots of other partners because they are found boring and get dumped.
2006-07-06 02:55:08 · answer #4 · answered by HEY_ YOU! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it does not. Being faithful makes you the apple of your husband's eye, and it is pleasing in the sight of God.
Here is a good life lesson: Usually, when someone tells youthat you are "missing" out, it usually means that that person is jealous of what you have, and will say or do anything to destroy what you have simply because they can not have it.
Be strong and keep your head up. Never mind what those busy bodies have to say.
2006-07-06 02:58:51 · answer #5 · answered by ladysea8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. Far from being boring because you know and trust each other and have been together a long time it should make you more adventurous with each other. Sex with another man would just cause hurt and pain for all around you. Just try new things with your man and tell anyone who says your boring that they dont know what happens behind closed doors.
2006-07-06 02:50:05 · answer #6 · answered by stressed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are definately not boring. You are a rare jewel. Your husband should appreciate just how lucky he is! You aren't 'missing out' on anything other than sex with people you DON'T care for like you do your husband. What you've got is so much more spectacular! Whoever told you that you were missing out is jealous that they don't have rights to a claim as precious as yours.
2006-07-06 06:53:55 · answer #7 · answered by K's Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that are you married, means that there should be no thought about cheating or regrets or missing out. Celibacy is rare, some men would hope they could have a woman this faithful. You are not missing out, in fact the person who told you this is missing out, because they haven't yet found their ultimate love!
2006-07-06 02:48:39 · answer #8 · answered by Reality 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not at all.Ive been with the same guy for 10 yrs who i met when i was 15! I dont think im boring,just lucky.
People who say your missing out,i wouldnt read into it,because at the end of the day the majority of people out there who are single,and having one night stands and saying how great it is..when it all comes down to it,they are all looking for that one person who they love,which lucky for us we already have.xxx
2006-07-12 23:06:49 · answer #9 · answered by donna h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That doesn't make u boring. U found true love why spoil it over an affair. Ur so not missing out on anything. U prob. have what alot of ppl. want. A nice secure relationship. U don't wanna mess that up.
2006-07-06 03:16:04 · answer #10 · answered by ♫♪♥mï®♥♫♪ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what if your boring?? You are also in love and lust with the man you married. Sounds like your friends who are encouraging you to stray are jealous! Follow the integrity of your own heart.
2006-07-06 02:47:57 · answer #11 · answered by Brent 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋