my bestfriend asked me if I thought we should take our relationship to another level like to say he wants to see if I'm the one but he has'nt been calling like he use to and our relationship is 99% communication. how do respond at his point?
2006-07-06 02:38:33 · 7 answers · asked by goaldeneagle95 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You can't respond if there is no communication. If your relationship is 99% communication, does that mean it is only 1% physical? Is that really enough???
Short answer: no, don't get married, you've got things to figure out first.
2006-07-06 02:41:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well.. Thats a pretty big step in a relationship. If hes not calling thats a sign that he wants you to make a desicion. It depends on how you feel. If you feel comfortable with the guy then talk to him and say you are ready. If you aren't then let him down slowly. Don't take it out hard. Just say you aren't quite ready yet and you want to slow things down. And I wish you the best of luck.
2006-07-06 02:45:25 · answer #2 · answered by MrTokyoDrift 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u feel as if u r ready 4 this next step then go 4 it. U have 2 think about this...If u were 2 break up then it can mess up ur friendship.
2006-07-06 02:46:54 · answer #3 · answered by Shay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as in next level, did he ask you to marry him, point blank. or does he just want a more structured intimate relationship with you? if he asked about marriage and you are asking us what to do you shouldn't marry him. if it was meant to be you would know with out doubt or hessitation, yes, i want to marry this person and be with them forever!
you need to make an effort to discuss this issue in depth with him, not with us radom strangers. if you can't talk to him about an issue this serious that can make an impact on the rest of your life, you don't need to be marrying him, that's for sure!
2006-07-06 02:46:32 · answer #4 · answered by hilton hottie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think we cannot give u the right answer to ur question. just think how ur life will b as a married pers. r u prepared 4 this? is he prepared 4 this? or u were just planning to test this for few years and them move on?
2006-07-06 02:47:39 · answer #5 · answered by James Blond 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never, ever marry your best friend!
I've been in the same situation and believe me... Not good!
Either he knows too much or he is too close for comfort... Know what I mean?
NO!
2006-07-06 02:43:38 · answer #6 · answered by Chellie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have any doubts don't get married right now.
2006-07-06 02:43:26 · answer #7 · answered by leahcutie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋