I'm just about tired of people period. It just seems like everyone in my life doesn't care about me and when i need someone emotionally the people i expect to be there aren't there. I have been used and abused by people, and I am a good person. I am just wondering why it happens all the time? Can someone shed some light on my confusion?
2006-07-06 02:35:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It is hard to understand why some people come off as being so mean. I have learned that when you run into people and they behave that way, something has happened to them in the past that made them become so bitter. The key is, of all the things you have experienced in you life, you CAN NOT allow it to change you. I have been taught that what goes around, comes around. You keep being the good person you are and you will be rewarded sooner than you think. Don't allow the negativity to corrupt your mind and spirit. And always remember, not all people are mean, bitter or have nasty attitude. You must give every person you meet a chance to show you who they are as a person. Don't automatically form an opinion of someone you meet, based on your past experiences.
2006-07-06 06:59:12 · answer #1 · answered by AMAZON 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You "allow" the "use and abuse" of those people around you. Perhaps you are "expecting" too much from those people. People today aren't emotionally "there" for those others around them, simply, because they are totally selfish and only care about themselves! If you are indeed a "good person" how is it that you have been able to "stay" that way and not be disillusioned by everything going on about you? How ever you've been able to do that is the same reason you will "forgive" those around you again and again - because it seems that you are also a forgiving person who is not completely "selfish", yet!!!! Just don't get "swollowed" up in all the "stuff" that others allow themselves to be involved in - - - Just go on with whatever "good" things that you do and are involved in - "others" will "come around" if they are truely concerned with you and what you are about - otherwise - let them go - let them be whatever they want to be and do!
2006-07-06 11:06:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone feels like that at some point, but don't let it get to your head. There's always people who care about you, even though you might not know it. Some people aren't really good at being emotional support, and if you really need it, there's always helplines you can call. Mainly though, don't let it affect who you are. Stay a good person, good things will happen for you. Keep your head up man.
2006-07-06 09:40:34 · answer #3 · answered by Southpaw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the nature of man. It could be your attracting those people, if you always find yourself in the same situation just remember you may be the one that needs the change of heart. You can't change others you can only change your location or how you feel about the situation.
2006-07-06 09:43:13 · answer #4 · answered by Doogle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you need to be smart from now on never let anyone use you, don;t be friends with those who use you and leave and don;t talk to them again
2006-07-06 09:43:25 · answer #5 · answered by maya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It feels good to be loved by others but love for yourself is unconditional..............
2006-07-06 09:40:13 · answer #6 · answered by aintdatsumshet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋