We were friend for 2 years, but I always had crush on him. last weekend he stayed at my place for some reason. and then all of the sudden we ended up in bed.
I don't know what am I suppose to do? I think I do want to continue it, but.......... . should I wait to see what is he gonna do, or should I call him or what?????????
2006-07-06 02:30:24 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if you really like him then you will still try to keep things going maybe you two will have a great life together....
2006-07-06 02:32:32 · answer #1 · answered by hoebag82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, religious people. GET OFF YOUR HORSE!!!! For GOD'S SAKE, (and i mean that literally), let him do the preaching. What's done is done, and this girl needs advice, not a sermon.
you're just gonna have to talk to him, but you don't need to call him and say, we gotta talk. it can be, and needs to be much more casual than that. Play it by ear, try not to be too weird, BUT if things start turning that way again, you need to make sure you're both on the same page before you sleep together again. Otherwise he may think he just got a friend with benefits, when thats not what you want at all. For your own sanity, and hopefully your morals, you either need to be friends or lovers, but not something inbetween. That inbetween is how a lot of girls get hurt. SEX will NOT NOT NOT, make him want to date you. He either wants to date you or he doesn't, and you need to know which it is BEFORE you sleep with him again. If he doesn't then sleeping with him isn't going to change his mind.
hope this helped.
2006-07-06 09:51:31 · answer #2 · answered by ladylawyer26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is great that you 2 are friends and then find some passion, but talk to him about it before thinking of having an ongoing sexual relationship with him. remember a man is only human and may have only been just sex for him. He is your friend so you 2 have the greatest advantage of open communication. Don't let sex ruin your friendship. Good luck!!
2006-07-06 09:36:50 · answer #3 · answered by girlygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did the same with a friend of 7 years. My only regret is that I didn't tell him how I felt. (When we talked the days after we were interrupted and unable to talk about it). Now whenever we see each other I get the boring "What could have been" talk.
Don't let it ruin your friendship, and make sure it is resolved. Tell him how you feel before it's too late. So call him yes. :)
2006-07-06 10:47:38 · answer #4 · answered by RSJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you said you were friends for 2 years. I guess you must have know him quite well, I mean if he is the right person for you. Talk to him. Let him know how you feel. If he is serious and wants to start a relationship, take it from there. Be prepared for a no answer. If the answer is no, stop it there. Just be friends.
2006-07-06 09:39:44 · answer #5 · answered by Lost Sheep 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Paleeeease dont call him. You dont want to seem desperate. I know that he is your "friend" and all but he is still a guy. Let him call you. And he WILL call if he wants you. I think that guys can sense anxiety coming from a woman and it scares them. It chases them away, so just chill and prepare yourself for whatever happens. Let him take the lead but respect yourself and your feelings. You're smart so I'm sure that you will figure all this out.
2006-07-06 09:36:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when ever friends become lovers it is gonna be ockward at first but you need to decide weather or not you want to have a realtionship together do not wait for him to call call him and talk it would be better in person after 2 years it should not be so hard good luck
2006-07-06 09:36:13 · answer #7 · answered by ACE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you should have done is not opened your legs, its a sin to have sex before you get married. What you should do is pray that your knocked up by some loser guy that just probably was your friend to get in your pants, have some respect for your self girl. And ask Jesus to come in your life.
2006-07-06 09:36:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you supposed to do??
Stop. Don't continue to fornicate.
Repent and confess this act of fornication so you don't risk going to Hell forever. I don't know if this act will send you to Hell, that decision is up to God.
Is that a chance you are willing to take?
Oh, yeah... call him and tell him to repent and confess too.
Sorry, but Heaven exists and Hell exists, regardless of what people believe.
May God Bless you.
2006-07-06 09:40:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him, talk about it, see what you both want to do. If you are this distressed by it then he obviously means an awful lot to you - perhaps you should bear that in mind - maybe you both just want to have a bit of fun, but make sure that you both talk about it.
2006-07-06 09:35:53 · answer #10 · answered by hooverhumper22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u do realise that u have spoiled yo frendship,if u date and break up then the frendship togeather with the relationship is over.u dont want to continue so b it,u dont have to wait for him to decide what u want,save the little frendship that has remained and hook up with other dudes
2006-07-06 09:39:03 · answer #11 · answered by lady x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋