But i don't get mad when he don't give it up when i want it and it's a bad time, but when he wants it and it's abad time i suppose to give him what he wants. we have sex enough but sometimes it's not the right time when we want what we want. WHAT SHOULD I DO
2006-07-06 01:39:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I want to, believe me my drive is more than his it's just that it may not be the right time ex: just morning i wanted to but i wouldv'e been late for work or with him i might want it but he has to do something
2006-07-06 02:14:49 · update #1
men have a need ...more than women..my old man gets mad too but I make it up to him later so he doesn't hold it against me..plus if u are his girlfriend he expects it from u and if u ain't givin it up, believe me he'll find it somewhere else
2006-07-06 01:47:35 · answer #1 · answered by sweet75482 2 · 7⤊ 2⤋
Dump Him!!!!
He gets mad because
he doesn't respect you,
he cares more about his needs than yours,
and he's not interested in doing anything else worthwhile with you,
he's controlled by his appetites, not his sense of what would be good for BOTH of you
in short,
the guy doesn't love YOU.
Sorry, but you just don't need that guy!
Blue balls s___! When they have kids, you think she's (that's you) gonna drop everything whenever he wants it? Diapers have to be changed, laundry had to be done, groceries have to be bought, somebody has to go to work, dinner has to be cooked, kids have to have some play time with parents, bath and a story and a girl needs some rest! So just get with reality!
2006-07-06 08:49:29 · answer #2 · answered by calliegal55 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new man.
Try someone who knows how to turn you on mentally and physically to point that You have to use self control, because if he isn't turning you on then something in the relationship is wrong.
Is he Black? Have you dating anything other than Black?
2006-07-06 09:05:25 · answer #3 · answered by jen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like there is only one of you in this relationship. HIM!!!! It's either his way or the highway. Start going down that highway, now. He's a selfish bastard, that shouldn't be aloud to get away with this ****.
2006-07-06 09:05:58 · answer #4 · answered by Mummabear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAIT, if you both are giving it up when you do want to or when at least one of you doesnt want to, there is something wrong. ask why he expects it from you yet he doesnt do the same. if worst comes to worst, spend a weekend together and rent a motel.
2006-07-06 08:43:37 · answer #5 · answered by BeAuTiFuL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you don't have time for the full deal, but a hand job could be quick to releave him of his semen back up.
2006-07-07 11:11:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because SEX keeps him calm.
2006-07-06 08:46:00 · answer #7 · answered by DUMMY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick to your guns. If you don't want to, don't. Your feelings are just as important and valid as his.
2006-07-06 08:49:08 · answer #8 · answered by K S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
blue balls hurt alot, thats why he gets mad. It also a matter of pride...which hurts even more...
2006-07-06 08:44:01 · answer #9 · answered by randyvous75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋