my fiancee is great in bed except he cums faster than i'd like. how can he improve his stamina? how can i even approach the subject without killing his ego?
2006-07-06 01:33:18 · 13 answers · asked by anniee233 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There are exercise to improve the stamina. One is to have him clench his buttocks while he is peeing and hold for 5 sec. He can do three or four reps while going. This strengthens the PC muscle that is on of many that is used in the sexual process. Best of all he can also do it while not peeing. Just clench for 20-30 sec while working, driving or just sitting cuddling on the couch. Also, you can teach him oral si'zex. Therefore you can get off way before the actual intercourse ever begins. OH and how to approach it, just be blunt. Tell, him you still love him, but there are ways to make the little engine that could go up mountains instead of hills. Good luck.
2006-07-06 01:41:08 · answer #1 · answered by Almighty Malachi 4 · 6⤊ 0⤋
if you fella is a fit young man then you should be able to get him ready again in no time at all then just do it again. the second time always lasts longer than the first and the third time longer still if he has stamina problems or is not fit then get him to give you some oral pleasure first then after sex you can say to him its his treat next and give him some oral .so you dont have to say anything to him that will upset him now will you
2006-07-06 01:41:32 · answer #2 · answered by alf h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps a few more time-outs, position changes and all could do the trick.. If he's about to ejaculate and doesn't, then has a few secs, it could add minutes. It's impossible to time though, unless he's aware of it and takes initiative. But for that, you'll have to speak to him about it. Sex does get better when communication gets better. I don't think you'd hurt his ego much if you simply tell him you want sex with him longer. Really, unless you're funny about it :o)
2006-07-06 01:40:53 · answer #3 · answered by McAtterie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to him, explain what you like and what makes you orgasm. Men want to be hot lovers, if you just encourage him to do things slower, that taking his time makes him the best you ever had he will most likely listen. Positive reinforcement is the key make it hot, make him believe he is the best and can only get better if he does...
2006-07-06 01:44:26 · answer #4 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do is let him ejaculate first and get him aroused again..........they last longer the 2nd time around...........& even longer afterwards!
so many way to do this without involving his ego.......no talking necessary just pleasure
let me know if you need some detailed pointers
2006-07-06 01:47:16 · answer #5 · answered by girlygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him off quickly, then he should be able to last longer for round #2
He may not have much experience, as his experience becomes increased his performance time should increase as well.
2006-07-06 01:42:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient...
Don't blame him for that, and he will progressively get confidence in himself.
Otherwise, ask him to make longer preliminaries (is it the right word ?), so that he just has to "finish" you...
Hope you will find a solution !
2006-07-06 01:39:41 · answer #7 · answered by JB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are great products at adameve.com to help you with this as well as any love store in your area and i think that he will appreciate you trying to help both of you to reach sexually bliss.
Hope this helps good luck
2006-07-06 01:42:31 · answer #8 · answered by tina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about your protective father during sex,he'll last forever.
2006-07-06 01:41:50 · answer #9 · answered by Just S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jerk him off first. Then, he'll last a lot longer.
2006-07-06 01:46:31 · answer #10 · answered by jeff15116 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋