Would you ever???

Question

If you met someone on the internet, say through here, and you hit it off soooooooooo well that you are so hot to go and you know they are, and you were in a relationship, would you pursue it???

I'm talking about a day and a night in a hotel room, just getting the sexual frustration out of yourself doing anything and everything... No emotions, no likelihood of it EVER happening again...

Be honest.. :D

Curious how so many seem to be fixated with disease...

And this is hyperthetical, so don't get your panties in a bunch!!! ;)

Answer 1

No, i would use the heat an passion i felt in bed with my man!!

Answer 2

I would say yeah and no. Yeah because it is that intense sexual attraction that you have for this person and it would most probably be the most amazing sex ever but no matter how hard you try - believe me your emotions and feelings would probably kick in at some point whether it is during the act or weeks after! No, because you are in a relationship and probably serious married, engaged?? What would you do if your partner done this to you? Be 100% sure that you are wanting to do it for the right reasons. I suppost tho - its great to flirt on-line because you can take all the sexual tension home with you and give it all to your partner!

Answer 3

I can't honestly say I wouldn't do it. But I'd have to seriously consider the consequenses. Is having that fire put out by a stranger, worth risking what I have at home? Is what I have at home no longer satisfying or is it just that this person turns me on so much sexually.

Sex, even good sex, only lasts an hour tops. If you plan to spend the night, then maybe you'd have sex three times. Still, what have you gained? You've lied, cheated and disrespected your spouse and yourself.

Is it worth it? That's the real question. Some things are, and then some aren't.

Answer 4

Yes and i've done it and am still doing it. I kind of thought it maybe would just be a one night stand, but we fell for each other big style and are still meeting up whenever we can (we live about 200 miles apart). We had been chatting for about 3 months every night and webcamming too before we met. Only problem is he's married and i'm in a relationship, but we're both very unhappy in our situations. I think i've been lucky finding someone in this way, as there are a lot of nutters out there, so be careful!

Answer 5

If your relationship means that little to you, that you would throw it away just to have sex with a stranger in a hotel, so little that you would throw it away for a few hours of fun, then maybe you should break up with the person.

No, I wouldn't do it. If I wanted to get out my sexual frustrations, I'd do it with my boyfriend. If you feel that you can't do that with your girlfriend, then you should talk about it, and see whether or not you want to stay in the relationship. Don't put her at risk for STDs because you are are too afraid to have a conversation about what's really going on, or too afraid to break it off.

Answer 6

NO! Definetly not. If you are in a relationship and really care about the person you have to ask yourself " Is it worth hurting someone I care about and possibly ending the relationship over a one night stand?" If the answer is yes, you don't need to be in that relationship anyway. People seem to think that sex can happen without emotions or feelings getting involved, but that rarely happens. It sounds like this is just a lust driven impulse and can really complicate things in your relationship. If its worth risking you partner for a cheap thrill, then your not happy in that relationship.

Answer 7

NO. You could tell yourself it would be ok, it will only happen once, but you know that if you don't get caught it will happen again. You're going to meet someone to have great sex with? It's a joke to say you don't want that again. Especially if you're not satisfied somewhere else, eg: home.
If you love the one you're with then don't do it. What if you did get caught? Then it may be the last time, but then again, you may be free to do anything you want, eg: single.
Best of luck making this decision. I say don't do it.

Answer 8

No. You're in a relationship you idiot - and so are they!

BUT if you're on the net hitting it off with people, it sounds like your relationship isn't all that great anyway, so you might as well go for it.. so as to fk up your relationship - in a sense telling your partner what a fkup you are so they can know now instead of later and move on in life.

In summary, do it - your relationship needs it.

Answer 9

No not unless I gave up the relationship I am already in. Some people take this computer stuff too far. What you are doing is so mean to the person you are in a relationship with now. Do you honestly think it would be as easy as your second paragraph says? I don't think so!!!!!

Answer 10

My grandms always said to me "the grass isnt always greener on the other side" Not to mention nothing is for free,you might think you could get away with a night like this but somewhere down the road you will have to pay for it.Look at it this way what if it where your partener,would you want them to do this to you??Good luck God bless:O)

Answer 11

Absolutely not.
You could end up with an STD, the woman could end up pregnant (or you could, if you're female), your spouse or significant other could find out...
I think if you're in a relationship, you should only be with that person.
Put yourself in your wife's place (I'm assuming you're asking because you're in this situation) - how would you feel if she cheated on you? Would you want your child to know Mommy or Daddy was a whore?