my bf is still in love with his x wife who he left for me. we have finished becasue he is confused. he left the marriage over 7 months ago. we have been together for a year
2006-07-06 01:06:08 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Oh dear ,i think maybe you should accept the fact that as he left his wife for you and has since finished with you maybe he realised that he loved her more than you,it's time to let go and move on before he hurts you anymore than he has already
2006-07-06 01:44:54 · answer #1 · answered by okayalder62 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love my wife also my son
So yes I can love 2 people at once.
Your bf you say
So it`s that you call yourself boyfriend & girlfriend,
Well you are seeing a MARRIED MAN
He has A Wife so how can he have a girlfriend
Your not his GIRLFRIEND he is Married,
YOUR his bit on the SIDE
Whilst he is Married, He has a wife,
So if he has A BIT on the side TOO,
Then he`s CHEATING on his WIFE,
If they split up get divorced, Because his Wife finds out about his BIT on the SIDE,
Then he can be with his new girlfriend,
Thats YOU & HIM (BF & GF lovey dovey )
But you will always remember this,
He cheated on his WIFE with you,
Will he cheat on you TOO.
Has he or is he CHEATING on both of you now,
He could have another bit on the side now
Which you and his Wife know nothing off.
If he cheated once he can and probably will
So he is a DOG, Remember the sign
BEWARE THE DOG
2006-07-19 21:23:17 · answer #2 · answered by itsa o 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, Not quite in the same way...
A love for a wife is different than for a girlfriend... Thats why most mistresses never "get their man"..
Bare in mind - he cheated on his wife with you - do you really think that someone that can do that, wont do it to you at some point in the future?
He's confused as he really loves his x, you are just a girlfriend...
Find someone SINGLE & enjoy your life.. - Time waits for no man (Or woman)
Have fun!!
2006-07-17 08:22:37 · answer #3 · answered by want_to_explore_life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a case like you are talking about, NO. From what you are saying he was seeing you while still married to her and then left her for you. He cheated on her with you,he is a player. And a person that can't make up his mind what he wants. If he did it to her, he will do it to you as well. You just need to leave him alone and find you someone that is single.
2006-07-06 01:23:16 · answer #4 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the one year you have been together three months were still given to his wife.He was with the wife longer and still loves her.He loves only one and that is his Ex you better move on with your life gal.
2006-07-06 01:14:40 · answer #5 · answered by Julieta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a guy just cannot love 2 ppl at da same time. in the end he himself begins to know that he luvs one gal maybe a little more than da other. it is not his fault it is because that he has the memories of both da gals. it is like u cannot do that and if u think u'r bf really luvs his ex pls talk 2 him.
2006-07-06 01:13:07 · answer #6 · answered by !diya! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not completely. It's clear that he still loves his wife and why shouldn't he? They made their vows to each other in front of their family, friends and God and were probably fine until a husband stealing, home wrecker like you came along !
2006-07-19 21:45:08 · answer #7 · answered by Spook 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um....yeah, it is possible......I know someone in the same situation.....only he's been divorced almost a year.....and he & his gf have been together 10 mos.....they met about a month after the divorce was final........anyway, he does still love and have feelings for his ex....they have kid together though, so its to be expected.....plus, he was with his ex 8 yrs....that is some major memory building........so, yes, it is quite possbile for him to love u both and be confused....Good luck !
2006-07-06 01:11:46 · answer #8 · answered by honey_bear_21_1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look,the ex wife will always be in his heart. besides,he really loved her and that is the reason why he married her. something went wrong,though,and they are divorced now. he is ready to make a new step,a new beginning with you now. he seems to be in love with you,as long as you two are together for one year.
so where's the problem?
2006-07-06 01:11:40 · answer #9 · answered by tttpsunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you 3 need to get together and all 3 of you just go at it! Then he will really love you!
2006-07-06 01:10:47 · answer #10 · answered by wondering 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋