help me?answer my q!?

Question

ok i love a boy, and he knows i love him, and sometimes i sense these little romantc things, but i know he just thinks of me as a friend. ppl have told me to be cooler and he'll come running but i cant do it...i might push him away. i don't think he's interested in me in that way at all...but were best friends and i dont knw what to do. he tells me about who he fancies and the one time i decided to try and confront him about how i like him. he kind of brushed it off. next day he was asking me who i liked. so i said his best friend just to get him back. he treats nearly every girl better than me. dunno wat to do
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Answer 1

It sounds like he is interested in you as a friend. You might just be reading the romantic things wrong. If you enjoy his friendship keep it up but if it is too hard cool it - he doesn't sound like he is ready for you yet.

Answer 2

i know u love him trust me been threw the same thing before with my ex. We were friends and i wanted it to be more and she gave me a chance. She broke up with me the next week saying that i was a better friend. Then she never talked to me again. So think of it like this if u keep pressing and wanting more and in the end he doesn't want to be (to me it doesn't sound like he wants to be) than you might loose his friendship. The best thing to do is get him alone and be serious and ask him how he feels about you. If he says he just wants to be friends let it be just that, because no matter how much u love him you cant make someone love you. Good luck
Calvin

Answer 3

You sound very young, sweetie. Don't be in such a rush for all the problems of adulthood. And to me it sounds as if you do need to cool it if you can...not many guys like clingy types. Besides, you should look for someone who loves you just the way you are.

Answer 4

I know its hard, but you just have to tell him the truth how you feel, lying to him like you did is wrong and giving him false information.
if he likes you more than a friend you will know for sure, if he doesnt say ok, its ok with me to be just your friend too.
but need to be honest with your feelings otherwise he will keep thinking you are joking with him and honesty is the best policy for starting a relationship.

Answer 5

The reason that he asked u who u liked was proberly becasue he liked u ( r u like 12)
this is hard to answer

its tottlay up to u

i mean :
if u tell him and he likes u bac great things
if u tell him and he dosnet like u then ur friendship might get kinda screwed.

but i reackon go for it
im cheering for u

Answer 6

from what u said he doesnt love you.but if you want to hear from the horses own mouth there's no harm in trying.i dont think he even likes you let alone love because u said he treats others better than you!does it ring a bell?

Answer 7

i guess u should just take a chance and ask him if he likes u, i did and i'm glad, cause my bestfriend ended up as my first bf, now i don't know how old u r, but i'm 13 and i'm sure that ur almost the same age as me, so i'm hopeing that something i said will help u.

Best Wishes, Becky:)

Answer 8

let him go, and try to go out with other guys, see what happens. if nothing, then he is really not interested, and you would really have to accept that. boys ofteh have got feelings they are scared of, and don't wanna show it. you have to give time. and do your own things, your own stuffs, i am sure you are still really young, ... so just find (safe) things to have fun...

Answer 9

Your key remark is your last sentence. That he treats other girls better than you. Why don't you look elsewhere??? You deserve better. Good Luck.

Answer 10

well u shouldn't have told him that u like his best friend. that hurts. he might have liked u