2006-07-06 00:51:58 · 30 answers · asked by kool k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yes but you must have known he was married before you fell in love with him? i hope you don't know his wife as this would put you in a precarious position. i predict it will all end in tears if you pursue him!
2006-07-06 00:55:56 · answer #1 · answered by stingub40 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is not a straight forward answer in this question. i am not going to jump and say yes or no as i do not know all the facts. Life is a strange wonderful thing full of twists. All we know (especially the people who labelled you the bad person) is that his wife is a monster who mistreats him and loads more. i would like to ask you if it is lust or love? Is it the feeling of i want something because i cant have it? If you are crystal clear with it and you know it is love then you have the second obstacle to make sure that he feels the same way. You have to know exactly where is he coming from? why is he really with you? When you answer these questions then you are going to have an answer your self. I have friends in both sides of this argument. Some of them cheated on their wives and then cheated on the second wife again and i have other friends who met some one else while married and now are very very happy with their second wife (notice that i use cheat in the first instance and meet on the second). What is going to be is up to you. If you want to talk further more about it do not hesitate to contact me
2006-07-06 08:23:17 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sensible??? No sense whatsoever..!!!
From a spiritual point of view, if you really 'LOVE' each other, you would not steal the relationship that belongs to someone else.
Stealing is destructive, and will bring disrespect, pain, humiliations, and untold number of bad things...
If you are feeling passion for this person the best thing to do is to get as far away from temptation as possible.
King David fell for Bathsheba, and God disciplined him with not a few sorrows. You reap what you sow.
What do you want to look back on in 10 years? Where do you want to be in 10 years??
Set higher goals for yourself before you crash. I would speak more about spiritual things, but I do not know if you want that kind of advice.
Best wishes...Tina
2006-07-06 08:20:26 · answer #3 · answered by tina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sensible? NO! First of all you need to take into consideration who you are hurting by dating a married man. Chances are he probably has kids which means that not only are you and of course him too are hurting his wife but also his kids. To be the other woman is not what anyone deserves and to be a part of ruining a marriage and breaking up a family is not where i would want to be.
2006-07-06 07:57:57 · answer #4 · answered by momof3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not good to go out with a married man though ur in love with him , as being a woman ur spoiling the life of another women,
If the case is different that the man is married and is about to get divorce and u love him then u can go on
2006-07-06 07:56:01 · answer #5 · answered by aifas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not a sensible thing to do, but nothing anyone says could stop the activity. It will have its own bad ending. And the is the way its suppose to be. There is a price to pay, for messing with other peoples "property" and feelings, emotions, etc.
2006-07-06 07:58:31 · answer #6 · answered by ••Mott•• 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first there is a truth in life you may not understand.in a deep relationship such as marriage,you can not love two people in the same way.you will always wind up leaning toward one and hurting the other.to even consider destroying the heart of the person who surrendered there very heart and life to you is a cold and insensitive act.when you are sleeping with a married person always remember there is more then one person in that bed.you may want to consider the hurt to all those involved,before you indulge on your selfish self gratification.
2006-07-06 08:00:44 · answer #7 · answered by largopirate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, even if you are single. What exactly is in it for you, he gets the wife and all the rest AND a bit on the side as and when it suits him. If it is really love then he should leave his wife BEFORE anything starts, he's just hedging his bets, he wants the best of both worlds. You should think more of yourself than being someones dirty little secret.
2006-07-06 07:57:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it doesn't make sense at all because its main thing that causes the rapid spread of the virus(AIDS). THERE is absolutely no way a married Man can love you may he is driven by lust , he wants to use you .There are lot of cute & caring Guys out there so find your own for the sake of your own safety.
2006-07-06 08:07:22 · answer #9 · answered by kulufana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's disgusting and any woman who does it knowingly is not much better than a tramp.
If a man is married, leave him alone if he wants to be with you then he WILL leave his wife if he doesn't or gives you the excuse of why he can't he's just a man who can't keep it in his pants, will never leave his wife and as soon as he tires of you will be on to the next one
2006-07-06 07:57:16 · answer #10 · answered by madamspud169 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, No, NO!!! Leave the married men alone! Nothing but heartache for EVERYONE comes out of it. I've seen it happen too many times......a man has an affair, "loves" the mistress, divorces his wife and kids, screws around on the mistress.....then dumps her.........Do you really think he won't cheat on u w/ someone else if he's cheating on his wife w/ u?
Think about it.....
2006-07-06 07:55:35 · answer #11 · answered by honey_bear_21_1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋