what do I do if I have lied to the person you love and i cheated on her. but you are so in love with her?

Question

I did not mean to, I dont know what I was think because I love this girl so much and i always will I was just being a *** hole

Answer 1

make it up to her.. but i guess u don't really love her coz if you do you will not gonna think or do something to hurt her..

Answer 2

Fine, so you didn't mean it, huh?! Well, everybody commits a mistake that's why the word "forgive" does exists. But mind you that it's not easy to forgive. If you are really sincere and do love her, then prove it! First, ask for her forgiveness, but make sure not to do it again. You have to entertain the idea that this is going to be very hard on her so win her back as your friend first. Then slowly, slowly, her anger will melt and maybe will learn to put back her trust on you again. Be nice and gentle and sincere this time.

Answer 3

When someone is soooooo in love with someone, cheating on her would be real hard. I mean real hard. It would be hard because you could think of being with anyone but her. You can't wait to see her again. You would be thinking of her all the time. Really you won't have time for thinking of someone because you are so in love with her. Yes their are beautiful women out there, but the first thing will hit your mind is "IS THIS BEAUTIFUL WOMEN WORTH LOSING THE LOVE OF MY LIFE?"

The only thing I can tell you is ask for forgiveness! Make yourself available as possible to her. Be with her as much as you can. Unless she ask for distance. Give it to her. And wait patiently. But be available. Call her and tell her you are sorry and ask for forgiveness. And by all means.... don't do it again. But remember it depends on her and the situation as how it will turn out.

Answer 4

Tell it to her. Don't wait for her to find it out from another person. I hope what you did was not a very serious mistake that will ruin your relationship. Say you're sorry and mean it. If you really love her, don't do anything foolish that will hurt her feelings. Next time be careful of your actions. Be sincere and do things that will build her trust to you. Good luck.

Answer 5

You are not all that much in love with her if you were willing to cheat on her. Now is the time to be a man and owe up and tell the truth.

Answer 6

Does she know already? Is she a forgivng person? Talk to her about it.....if she's a forgivng person, she'll give u a second chance....if not, you've probably blown it. Sometimes, we hurt the ones we love the most the worst.......When u talk to her, tell her you'll never do it again.......sometimes that helps. If this has only happened once, you deserve a second chance...but if you've cheated and lied multiple times, you don't......

Answer 7

actions speak louder than words. Being in love is very different than just loving someone. I think it would really take a maraculous miracle for her to love you as much as she used to.

Answer 8

then,if u really regret it and made a vow tht u won't ever do anything to hurt her and turn a new page,then u have to do nothng except to show her that u love her more than anything else and that u can't live without spendin every single min. beside her

Answer 9

You could always try honesty. Explain the situation to her and go from there. Then see what she says and what her feelings are. Thats about all you can do. Good Luck.

Answer 10

FIRST OFF YOU ARE NOT SO IN LOVE W/ HER, CAUSE IF YOU WERE YOU WOULD OF NEVER CHEATED ON HER, LET ALONE EVEN THOUGHT ABOUT IT. SET HER FREE SO SHE CAN FIND SOMEONE ELSE, YOU WOULD BE DOING HER A BIG FAVOR AND SHE WOULD THANK YOU SOMEDAY.

Answer 11

if you were so in love with her why you cheated on her?
you'r not in love with her you just think you are