Why is it that guys always think that talking... is fighting.. My boyfriend and i were talking about a problem i wasnt mad he wasnt mad and he automatically thinks were fighting.. when were not..everyone has disagreements, but that doesnt mean we are fighting. What can i do? its impossoble t talk to him about anything thats bothering me, and if i cant, it wont last long.
Im completely and utterly lost on what to do
2006-07-06 00:09:47 · 2 answers · asked by A m a n d a [[D o l l f a c e]] 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Not every man is like that by the way! You have to speak to him, and tell him to be calmer. if you speak in a calm way, he will automatically do so, and if not tell him to be calmer tell him you are only speaking with him, and tell him that the way he is speaking is bothering you. every man has a different character, not everyone is perfect so if you find another one you may have other problems with his charactyer, you have to be open with him. if he is not ready to change it, and you are bothered find another one.
it seems your boyfriend is not that friendly. something thta is in his character is a little difficult to change. good luck
2006-07-06 00:14:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the manner , tone and how you phrase the questions are tell tale signs if the conversation intend to be offensive or genuinely exchange of opinions. It's a skill acquire through experience, adjusted according to who you speak with....
2006-07-06 08:02:13 · answer #2 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋