2006-07-06 00:08:56 · 19 answers · asked by ambidextrous25 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You love the person FOR their imperfections. Here's a poem about it:
Ring the bells that still can ring.
Forget your perfect offering.
There is a crack in everything.
That's how the light gets in.
-Leonard Cohen
2006-07-06 00:13:48 · answer #1 · answered by es_harper2007 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You love despite---acceptance is the key. There is no such thing as the perfect mate or the perfect relationship, but accepting the things we don't like in our mates and communicating rather than arguing can make for a relationship as "perfect" as possible.
People do not talk about expectations and they mistake lust for love. The lust will diminish and the rest is what counts. So make sure that you can communicate well with your mate and be willing to accept the way he/she throws things around, squeezes the toothpaste out of the tupe, is organized....etc.etc. because those are nuisances you will have to deal with on a daily basis, but they don't make the person you love---Good Luck
2006-07-06 07:15:08 · answer #2 · answered by MARIANNE G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You love the person despite imperfections. Love is about acceptance.
2006-07-06 07:11:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
There is no such thing as the perfect person...
People who think there is...
Will be looking for their whole life...
We all have imperfections that we learn to live with...
And we seek,and most find that special person who will love them despite their imperfections...
And both are happy when they find eachother...
2006-07-06 07:17:04 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you first meet someone, that person may appear perfect to you - but in reality, there is no perfect person - we all have flaws since we are human beings. Love the person for who he or she is on the inside - looks change, but personalities are forever.
Just consider that you have flaws as well as the one you love - and he or she stays with you despite those flaws and imperfections.
If we sought only perfection, then we would be alone the rest of our lives.
2006-07-06 07:13:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love the person despite their imperfections. Cos thats what makes them unique.
there is no perfect person out there, or at least I dont believe it.
I believe you need to work hard at your relationship, thats what makes it all worth while.
2006-07-06 07:12:39 · answer #6 · answered by Angelus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love the person despite there imperfections
2006-07-06 07:10:53 · answer #7 · answered by REAPER_ENTERPRISES 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loving someone and their imperfections is what it's all about...I believe there is a perfect partner, or "the one", out there for everybody, but most never find them. So, we just settle for second best.
It's sad, but it's reality.
2006-07-06 07:12:10 · answer #8 · answered by Juejuefruits 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What. You never heard the saying, "No one is perfect" ?? It happens to be true .But this doesn't mean that you put up with anyone treating you badly....Is this what you call "imperfections' ??? You sound like a desperate someone who is staying with some asshole because you are scared to be alone...
2006-07-06 07:15:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone have imperfection aside from your ideal perfect girl ,or boy if you're a girl.
2006-07-06 07:12:14 · answer #10 · answered by athame 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋