2006-07-05 23:48:55 · 29 answers · asked by Mani 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
What you are scared about is probably not knowing if this person will be your ally or a nemesis.
The one piece of advice I can give you is relax, and trust her to support you emotionally. And all you have to do is trust her as well, she has gotten along all these years without you, she knows how to stay alive, as do you. Each of you will have strengths and weaknesses, trust her strengths, never admonish her for her weaknesses.
If you do that, everything will fall into place.
2006-07-06 00:07:16 · answer #1 · answered by frid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously love this person to marry them, so I suggest just bask in that love, believe in it, and do what feels right to you.
Is she a virgin as well? If so you can learn together about sex and how it works and how it feels. It's nothing to be nervous about because it's a beautiful thing. If she isn't then it's just as well that way because she could help you along.
I think it's incredibly special that you have saved your virginity to give to your wife. That must mean alot to the both of you.
Remember you don't have to do anything to crazy or out there when you have sex. It doesn't need to be some tantric position with crazy techniques, this is your first time, just the fact that it is happening for you both will make it wonderful, memorable and special.
Just take your time, don't rush it and be careful!
Congratualtions on getting married as well, I wish you all the happiness the world has to offer.
2006-07-05 23:57:14 · answer #2 · answered by lovely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you scared about? Nature has a way of taking care of things, so try not to worry too much. You'll be fine and two days after the wedding you'll wonder what you were so scared of.
2006-07-05 23:55:50 · answer #3 · answered by jingles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you scared of? If you are referring to being married maybe you are not ready yet and should seriously talk to your partner. Maybe you should reevaluate you relationship or yourself before getting married. as for being a virgin if your scared of having sex you must be extremely unsure of yourself. Learn to love yourself before trying to love someone else. Sex comes naturally and is absolutely wonderful when shared with someone you really love.
2006-07-06 00:05:45 · answer #4 · answered by girlygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax. Not so many years ago, most people were virgins when they got married. It worked out for all of them. Just go for romance and focus on being loving and it will be just fine. Congratulations on waiting for marriage and Congratulations on your marriage.
2006-07-05 23:58:36 · answer #5 · answered by Barbara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be scared of lots of things!
But don't be scared of sex! It is amongst the greatest and most enjoyable things you will ever experience. Relating to someone you love... in that way!!! NOBODY has sex that can't be improved on... That's why there is a next time.
No... don't be scared... be anxious... being scared about sex, is like being scared to win the lottery! Be scared of a DENTIST VISIT. Be scared of a CAR ACCIDENT.
Be THANKFUL about having sex with the woman you love.
2006-07-05 23:53:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don`t u worry, man... I`m a 27 very married man... very not virgin guy... and I think if u really love each-other u`ll know what to do...
Good Luck!!! ;)
And my wife say: "If your wife isn't help u... then don`t do this step..." .... she is joking off course... I think...
2006-07-06 00:18:16 · answer #7 · answered by tofyhan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first husband turned right into a **** addict, supposedly a competent Mormon guy too. I had a fable in my ideas that one and all he needed changed into to be married and performance a competent warmth woman in his mattress, then he does not have this dependancy anymore. He promised to end and not in any respect do it lower back so we were given married. after i changed into pregnant with my first baby i got here upon a blouse from an section strip bar crumpled up in the vehicle. He lied and made up some tale about a guy who left it in his motor vehicle. He may frequently artwork overdue (uh huh) and say he changed into going to be someplace and wasn't. This went on for years and then my 2d baby, a son, changed into born. i concept for particular he may opt to straighten up and be a competent husband, father and celebration for his son. Nope, the habit were given worse, he were given violent and reported i changed into attempting to regulate him. i began searching emails from strippers. Our sex existence changed into really a lot non existant because that he may fulfill himself by using **** and strippers. He did not relish my body or discover me in any respect pleasing because that he changed into comparing me adversarial to 18yr olds in **** mags and youthful strippers with breast implants. I stayed in this marriage 4 youngsters and 12 years later astonishing on and hoping he may replace. He changed into continually sorry, continually reported he may not in any respect do it lower back. He broke my heart over and once extra. He also broke my youngsters hearts when we finally divorced. i'm so sorry on your loss and each and every of the trauma you've been by using. you need to be being supported and loved on the instant after this variety of tramatic journey. it variety of feels that his interest is elsewhere. i does not anticipate him to get help. My hub and that i went by using many bouts of counseling yet he nevertheless ended up doing what he needed to. you're scared for a reason, because you comprehend this isn't excellent. Step lower back, take your time to truly seem at how he as dealt with you. Then quickly ahead 10 years, how are you going to sense after this same medical take care of a decade. he's showing you who he's, please pay interest.
2016-11-01 07:15:24 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok ignorance is no excuse - so go get a book like mars and venues in the bedroom or some such other book and be informed - be patient and all will be fine - congratulations
2006-07-06 00:09:57 · answer #9 · answered by worldstiti 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-07-05 23:51:52 · answer #10 · answered by sameer1229 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋