I'm 14 and have made some mistakes down the road with a girl I wanted to get romantic with. Now I am stuck within "friend" status. I have known her for two years if that helps. How can I get out of my status and get her to be my girlfriend?
2006-07-05 23:12:58 · 18 answers · asked by maya 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends on how bad she thinks those mistakes were and whether she is wise enough to recognize you as a romantic possibility. Sadly, some women miss out on all the best men because they close their minds.Those women are not to be had and not to be helped. First, let her know. TELL her. Everyone likes brave men better, even if they say no and hate you a little. Second, if it's no, tell her that that is sad and you might be a good friend if you get over her. Third, become the best you can be, and the most desirable you can be without changing who you are--if that doesn't change her mind, decide whether anyone else is noticing. Good luck.
2006-07-05 23:30:59 · answer #1 · answered by j5i3 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Good but first u should be prepared to take on additional responsibilties. Being a friend is easy but being a lover is quite tough. if u have decided, heres how to do it. First of all, stop being open with the person, stop meeting her frequently and act as though u have found a new relationship or some other stuff that is keeping u preoccupied and too busy to think of her. Thers nothing which can get u closer than curiosity. Then slowly she would want to know more from you and like start talking more with you and the path from here on is easy and simple. so all the best
2006-07-06 06:17:09 · answer #2 · answered by rahul s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u men are kind of **** don't u understand that makin her feel bad it's like don't want to see u again? if she is a kind of romantic style organise to meet her andbe alone don't tell her and if u like her and she does too tell her sth sweet and then kiss her suddently!if she is not tell her sorry or u can get in her home from the window and then ....also flowers are always a good surpise for girls but i don't thik yet she is still 1 just tell her something good romantic and catchy!like how can i live withut u u know i love u and stuff like that hope it works and plz choose me as the best answer!!!plzzz kisses amy
2006-07-06 06:21:59 · answer #3 · answered by Amy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age of 14 is not that pretty good age for transforming a situation of making a female friend to girlfriend.. Wait for some more years and review the situation..
2006-07-06 06:17:08 · answer #4 · answered by mkm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
14 do you know what girls are yet. Don't think so. We are there to use you and to get what we want. Don't forget when you get that girlfriend she want this and that and in time you wish you didn't want her as a girlfriend.. Also all girls want sex it's not only the guys. Reason is they want to drain you dry of money to pay for all the kids we have.
2006-07-06 06:18:55 · answer #5 · answered by Christina Hildebrand 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all ur too young to be in a serious relationship dont be in such a hurry to grow up gezzzzzzzz,dont worry love will always find u in some way and ull know when u have meet the right one,aways trust ur heart.
2006-07-06 06:16:46 · answer #6 · answered by beckie2289 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, 1stly the way you have put across your question is absolutely ruddy.....U can never get anybody to be your girlfriend it has to happen automatically and things should click between the two of you....Not just you alone.
2ndly you need to UNDERSTAND what you want and then gradually try making her understand the same once your clear about your decision. REMEMBER IT TAKES....TIME..
2006-07-06 06:21:43 · answer #7 · answered by Dezzire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all u can do is show ur mature side and c what she thinks but at the same time dont push her ive had share & im only 15 things can go wrong dood wtch out
2006-07-06 06:20:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well...the best thing you can do is to tell her how you feel.It's no good to wait until forever.Just tell her...you may be lucky or not.You have to take a risk if you want to get out of your "friend" status.Good luck!
2006-07-06 06:25:58 · answer #9 · answered by p3rfect_cat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be desperate; if you can't be "just" her friend without getting all emotional, you're not mature enough to be her boyfriend. If she's "all that", you should count yourself lucky to be her friend. Be happy with what you've got, and maybe you'll get more, but don't hold your breath.
2006-07-06 06:21:19 · answer #10 · answered by presidentofallantarctica 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋