also, i've never experienced dating or courting someone? need your honest answers???
2006-07-05 23:05:39 · 26 answers · asked by "Van" 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your heart and body well let you know when it is time...what is normal for might not be normal for other as what is normal 4 others might not be normal 4 u...do u understand...i applaud you and others that wait till there older till haveing a relationship...
2006-07-05 23:12:35 · answer #1 · answered by GyVuPhaYs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it's normal =) I was 22 when i found my girlfriend...i'm still 22. Even though i have experienced other stuff, i truly found the person i'm meant to be with, and all that other stuff seems meaningless now.
My suggestion is to go out there, "Scope" the places...do something to get yourself out there and seen. Bars are ok, but, not really the BEST place to meet somebody. But, it does work. Even sports bars - i think sports bars are the way to go, cause if you're into sports, and some chick walks up to you, she's a keeper, cause she's watchin sports too! lol.
Don't be shy - even if you have to initiate convo's, then, do it.
That's the only advice i can really give ya =)
2006-07-05 23:14:32 · answer #2 · answered by XxDJToxic420xX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, you could be quite normal. That does not mean you fit the typical pattern. I do think most guys your age have already dated before, but perhaps you are still normal. Not having a gf or not having dated someone seriously does not mean you are not normal. However, if the reason that you have not dated a girl is that you are gay, you fart in public and never brush your teeth, you hate to shower, you treat girls like crap, etc., then perhaps you could be abnormal in some way. If you are gay then you need not worry about finding a gf, if other things you do ot turn off females (ie. actions, attitude, or style is offensive to women), then maybe you should worry about those. But, maybe its just not your time. So just wait and you will find someone that likes you and that you like!
2006-07-05 23:31:54 · answer #3 · answered by immune01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends how you define normal who gives a rats *** what anyone else has to say it only matters how you feel I know easier said than done the ones that go on and on tend make fun or judge you and then Bragg about themselves are full of crap tend to be in the same boat like I always say what is the perfect body does anyone really know because really it is different in every ones eyes my idea of a perfect body is probably different than yours we all are attracted to different things this is what makes us individuals You also have your daily life to add in there I don't know how busy you are and with what and it is harder as an adult to meet people it's usually at the bar where else is there unless you play sports it will come together a girl loves a guy how is comfortable in his own skin but not where you think your the bomb and **** don't stink major turn off start off with small talk see if they want 2 dance if u like the song even if you think she may say no just walk up have big pull on your drink and ask chances are very high in your favour she will say yes and if by chance she says no at maybe later does not me no with most girls it actually means later least you didn't buy her a drink and waist money never offer to buy them a drink until at least a dance or two or some conversation they never say no to that
that is assuming you go to the bar good luck
2006-07-05 23:23:36 · answer #4 · answered by Marnie O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the right one fot you is not here for you yet. Take it easy and don't lose your grip. But you are still young, get your career fixed for your future and by the time you do, maybe the right chick may walk right in front of you and say hi. If you are that desperate, just ask out any of your girl friends from college or anywhere else, which you like.Good luck.
2006-07-05 23:14:20 · answer #5 · answered by Felice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't date till I came back from VietNam, My first girlfriend became the mother of My three beautiful daughters, and we had many great years before she died in a accident.. God gives, God takes away, Blessed be the name of The Lord..
2006-07-05 23:12:52 · answer #6 · answered by mr.phattphatt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never dated? Hmm.. well.. It doesn't mean you're not normal, but dating is something pleasurable, that anyone should experiment. Just find a girl that you like and ask your friends for a bit of help and advice..
2006-07-05 23:09:03 · answer #7 · answered by irina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 25 when I got my first girlfriend. Got my first sex at 29 on my marriage. Still enjoying my family life with three lovely kids. If this is not normal what is it?
2006-07-05 23:10:26 · answer #8 · answered by Frontal Lobe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u are normal if u believe it ur self but u should make an efford and go out with girls don't be scared to get rejected u know this is life if u take it for real u lose if u just relax ans stay cool it's ok just make ur style and ur self gussy up and go ....
2006-07-05 23:12:48 · answer #9 · answered by Amy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry Van, I know someone who is older than you and has never dated or had a girlfriend.
2006-07-05 23:08:18 · answer #10 · answered by Ya-sai 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋