Please Help!!?

Question

Lasst night, I found a strange Female necklace in my boyfriends bedroom. I don't know what to do. I do want to ask him, but I am looking for a way to do that that he wouldn't lie to me. How do I approach him with this matter? I don't want to get him angry, and I don't want to show him that I am angry... Help Me please

By the way, his family lives very far away and he doesn't have any family within this country

It's Also a cheap necklace and evidence that it has being used

Answer 1

the best way would be to calmly but firmly ask him whats going on, watch his face for any sign of distress...you will know if he is lying or telling the truth!

Answer 2

You really are in a bad type of problem, why do you have to care so much if he gets angry or not. If that necklace really is some other girl's and if you really are his girl friend then you have the right to ask him about it right away. And you should be able to determine if he is lying to you or not. Ask him for proves, ask him to prove that he doesn't allow any other girl in.

But I think you should wait for a few days, like 3 or 4 days and keep an eye on him to see whom he talks to and who comes in his house. If you can catch him red handed it would be better, if you can't do that within 3 or 4 days then go and ask him about it directly.

Answer 3

Hi dear,
I do know, the staff goin in your mind,well first of all just calm down take it easy.At this kind of sitution wat usually happenes is we become ruthless and do certain mistakes that do us no good but instead they badly effect our relationship.Wat i want u to do is to take matters personally in your hands,i mean wat you can do is,if somehow you can have that necklace that you saw,maybe you can buy one like that,maybe artifical just it should look exactly same,or else u can take the same necklace from ur boyfrnds room,and then all u hav to do is to wear that necklace and get infront of your BF,he will surely recognise it,and when he will responed you 'll know the whole thin,all u got to do is observe if he is comfortable or not if he is not that means.Well rest you know baby.well i hope i'll be of some help to u.

Take care
Gaurav

Answer 4

don't be so negative he may have brought that necklace for you but if not then......you need to talk to him
just ask him that had he purchased for some necklace if he says no then ask him about that necklace and if he agrees than you had a jackpot becoz its for you............good luck.

Answer 5

maybe its for his mom or lil sister, cousin....Bottom line,
first of all get the evidence u need, then ask him & tell him that
you wr anxious to know about the necklace coz u luv him so much
that u dnt want anothr chick to steal him from u.

Answer 6

Ok, you obviously would like him to be honest with you in this situation so don't dance around the situation trying to catch him, instead do what you want him to do with you. Be honest with the guy. If he lies, and you feel the need to catch him then do it and show him the door. If its not yours, so who else could it be? His mom or sister? That one is surely an unlikely but probable bad lie.

Answer 7

just place it in his room again n pretend to find something and wen u take that necklace out.......ask him...but very practically
listen to his explanations and dont be a emotional fool.........

Answer 8

Keep the necklace, are you sure its not his? It could been worse, you could have found some girls panties.

Answer 9

just pretend that you saw it for the first time then ask is this your sister's necklace?

Answer 10

just speak in a calm manner and just say you've found this in his room and if hes done something bad you'd rather he told you because you'll be more angry if he lies to you